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Glad I'm not dating. And confusion.
Posted September 29th 2013 at 02:42 AM by Ennui.
I'm sure some of you who have answered my HelpLINK ticket once remember that I was thinking of going on a date with this one girl? Well, I realized that it wouldn't work out because of how busy I am. I stopped texting her basically, but it really was accidental that I did. I just was always way too busy to text her back, and eventually she gave up.
I went to her Facebook page today. She already has a girlfriend. She seemed so desperate to get with me, too. I don't know, it seems strange. But it makes me glad that I'm not actually dating her because I feel as if one or both of us would have gotten hurt. She seemed to be too desperate, me too uncaring whether I date or not. I didn't have feelings for her and it got stressful. But seriously? She rebounds fast.
I don't know, I do want to date but not her. But I also don't care if I ever date at the same time. I want someone who is as willing to take things slow as I am, who's not desperate, who's... I know what I want I guess, just not how to obtain.
But I also feel as if my sister somewhat knows? Yesterday I was texting someone and I had him labeled in my phone as "M" because any time my mom and sister saw his name when I had his full name, they thought I was dating him. So I changed it to M. My sister saw I was texting him yesterday and asked who it is. I just said "Someone." She asked "Boyfriend?" No. "Girlfriend?" No.
She asked if I had a girlfriend? And once before this she told me I'm probably not having kids. Does she know?
I went to her Facebook page today. She already has a girlfriend. She seemed so desperate to get with me, too. I don't know, it seems strange. But it makes me glad that I'm not actually dating her because I feel as if one or both of us would have gotten hurt. She seemed to be too desperate, me too uncaring whether I date or not. I didn't have feelings for her and it got stressful. But seriously? She rebounds fast.
I don't know, I do want to date but not her. But I also don't care if I ever date at the same time. I want someone who is as willing to take things slow as I am, who's not desperate, who's... I know what I want I guess, just not how to obtain.
But I also feel as if my sister somewhat knows? Yesterday I was texting someone and I had him labeled in my phone as "M" because any time my mom and sister saw his name when I had his full name, they thought I was dating him. So I changed it to M. My sister saw I was texting him yesterday and asked who it is. I just said "Someone." She asked "Boyfriend?" No. "Girlfriend?" No.
She asked if I had a girlfriend? And once before this she told me I'm probably not having kids. Does she know?
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Honestly I'm glad things didn't get to far, if she was that desperate for a girlfriend that's not someone you need to be with. Been down that road and learned to be more careful about it in the future.
I do understand and even agree with your views on dating. If/when the time is right it'll happen. If it doesn't at least you seem content with that as well.
The last part made me laugh, can't believe they thought that XD As far as your sister knowing or possibly knowing, who knows. Maybe something slipped out somehow and she knows and it isn't a big deal to her.Posted September 30th 2013 at 03:17 AM by Thereishope
