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I really need advice - September 11th 2012, 12:14 AM

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Hi, I really need help.. So , I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months and he's helped me out through a lot. In january , I had taken an overdose and ended up in the hospital. He really helped me through that. He's made me very happy and he makes mistakes but hey , everybody does . Well , he Ranaway about 2 weeks ago and came to my house. Long story short, he was only here for a couple of hours before his parents took him home. I had to lie to his parents face and to mines aswell because I wanted to protect him. He said he has very strict parents and he didn't want to be there anymore so of course , I tried to help him out. Well, he hasn't had his phone., and lately I've been thinking that he's cheating on me . So I tell him and he says he's not . I've never trusted him . He's breaken up with me already once and broke my heart and we got back together cause he said he never realized what he had till I was gone.. I didn't buy it but I really loved him. So today, I get home from school thinking I should message.him but as soon as it urn my phone on , I get a text saying that he cannot be with me anymore and he's not leaving me for another girl but I sure as hell donot believe him. He promises me that he would never leave me and we planned out our whole future together and now he does this to me..and I feel so empty and worthless right now I donnot know what to do. I want to kill myself. I really do. advice please ?
   
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Re: I really need advice - September 11th 2012, 12:19 AM

I'd tell you to wait. You're still young and having a relationship at our age isn't that good. Give dating a break and work on friendships with guys, if you find someone who likes you and you like him, take it easy, slow and if he doesn't like it tell him to deal with it.

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Re: I really need advice - September 11th 2012, 12:31 AM

Well i agree with Jamie. Give dating a break for right now because i went through the same thing your going right now and well i tried to kill myself and when i did try everyone i knew was heart broken, so please don't kill yourself because their will be plenty more boys like him and so try to work on friendship while your single because thats how you know how you will be treated if you date that boy. And just remember We Care because on TH were all Family. And i give you a Virtual Hug.


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Re: I really need advice - September 11th 2012, 02:23 AM

I just have a lot of things going through my mind right now,
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Re: I really need advice - September 11th 2012, 03:13 AM

Feel free to message me if you need to

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