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Exclamation i can't - September 23rd 2012, 08:38 PM

I am struggling so much right now i cant do this anymore. I am taking it second by second. i never thought it would be this hard. I want to die so much


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Re: i can't - September 23rd 2012, 09:08 PM

Focus on something you love.

Listen to your favourite song.

Read your favourite book.

You're worth it to live-- you have a life for a reason, and have lived it before now or a reason. Stick to it and hang in there!!!
   
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Re: i can't - September 23rd 2012, 09:16 PM

But what if i dont want to hang in


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Re: i can't - September 23rd 2012, 09:36 PM

Hi Chantelle

Firstly, I doubt very much that if you didn't want to do this anymore, then you wouldn't be on this site daily asking for help and advice as well coming into the forums and making thread. There's a reason you came here today and posted this. And I doubt that's because you don't want help.

Secondly. You can and you will. You can't and you won't. I know this has been hard for you and I can relate to that but I think its time you chose recovery and happiness. Because if you don't, you're not going to get anywhere. And even when you chose to beat this, you have to work hard because believe it or not, at the end of the day, you are going to be the person who can help you the most. But if you be negative all the time and say that you can't do this, then you won't. Getting better won't happen. You have to want it and you have to choose it and then you have to fight for your life back and for happiness again.

And I know you want it. You talk to me a hell of a lot and there honestly is a reason you keep coming back for help and I think thats because you want to make it through this. Maybe its time to change, yeah? And its going to be a long and hard road but if you fight for it, work hard, let people support you and think positive, you will get there and you will get through this.

You know about distractions and so on because we have spoken about them tens times before, so I just wanted to remind you to do things that help you and have a positive affect on you.

You're more than capable of beating this kid. You can get through it and you can start to feel better again. But remember, you need to be the change you wish to see.

We're all behind you on this.
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Re: i can't - September 23rd 2012, 09:39 PM

hey, I know how hard things can be, but there are always reasons to hold on. we love you, and we will do all we can to help just remember that, even though something is bad now, doesn't mean it will be forever


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You can be both, or a mix of the two,
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But people are people, whatever their parts,
because what really matters, is inside of our hearts.

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Re: i can't - September 23rd 2012, 09:41 PM

i do want to get better but to be honest im scared to


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Re: i can't - September 23rd 2012, 09:45 PM

Chantelle, I think it's 'normal' to be scared about it. Its actually a very big thing especially when you have been feeling this way for so long. But you can either continue to feel this way because you're too scared or you can overcome that fear and start to feel happy again. But sometimes, to start the rest of our lives, we have to step out of our comfort zone, you know?

I believe in you a hell of a lot. I know you can do this.


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Re: i can't - September 23rd 2012, 09:46 PM

i do want to be happy you have no idea how much i do


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Re: i can't - September 26th 2012, 01:18 AM

PEOPLE LOVE YOU! Even though I don't know you, I would be so incredibly sad if you died! I just lost my grandma who I was very close with. Life has never been so hard. Please don't put your friends and family through grief. It may be unbearable at the moment but just keep going! Last year, I wondered if it was worth it but now I know that it is. Find a hobby that you love and know that you are loved!
   
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Re: i can't - October 2nd 2012, 01:55 AM

i am scared tonight will be the night it all ends for me but its so comforting too


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Re: i can't - October 2nd 2012, 07:19 AM

Hey Chantelle, why don't you write out your feelings on a piece of paper and then burn it? Maybe coming to terms with all you feel and then seeing it go up in flames or you tear it apart you may feel like you can get a better grip on it!

Please, don't do it sweetie, this is only one chapter of your life. I'd miss you so much if you did go through with it!

It's like a wave, ride it out. I know you'd feel probably half under right now but you can still ride it out.

Keep strong,
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