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Exclamation I need somebody's help! - October 21st 2012, 02:21 AM

Whe I was 9 year old I almost got raped. My step dad saved me from getting raped. Today i am 13. I sometimes wish i would die. I am not happy with my life. My step dad now calls me a whore and says I will amount to nothing. I dont see how I am a whore, I am still a virgin and I dont really talk to many guys. I am planning on going to college. I play volleyball, softball, and basketball. I plan on playing one of those sports in high school and college. I make A's and B's in school. Wtf? I dont understand. I was talking to this guy for about 3 months, and he was talking to another girl and I didn't know it. He had only been talking to her for about 3 days, but he had known her for years. He likes her and she likes him I guess? It hurt me so much when I found out. He made me happy, now I cry like every 5 minutes. I have thoughts about cutting myself. He made me so happy words couldnt explain. There is always another girl involved when I talk to a guy. In about 7 months every guy I have talked to have either cheated on me or have been talking to other girls. I hardly ever sleep, or sleep too much. I feel like I will never be happy anymore. I have been through this same thing many many times. Youd think I'd be use to it, but this guy is diffrent. I fell in love with him. Most people want to use me, in such ways as for sex. I dont want sex, I want a real happy realtionship. I want to give up, but then again I dont. I wanna keep looking but I dont. I feel like I'll never find anybody. Everyone keeps telling me "They will come" but I have waited over a year! I feel like my life is a failure. I am never happy anymore. I am always depressed. I need somebody's help!!!
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Re: I need somebody's help! - October 21st 2012, 07:09 PM

Hi there

Have you tried talking to your stepdad about how you feel when he calls you these names? If you have and it's still continuing, is there another trusted adult that you could talk to about this? It's wrong that he's naming you like this and making you feel bad.

As for boys, you are 13, you are still young. You have lots of time for relationships and I know you have been told it before, but it will happen, in time. For the time being, get to know people as friends. Keep yourself busy, do things that you enjoy, take up hobbies and maybe when you are least expecting it, something will happen.
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