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i cant live on :'( - January 27th 2013, 03:20 PM

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I want to live on but I cant I just have had enough everyone who cares about me please DONT FORGET ME I will miss you all


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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 27th 2013, 11:06 PM

Hey there,

Let me say, I know you've been struggling, but I'm proud of you for getting this far. You've struggled to get as far as you have, so there is absolutely no point giving up now. You say you want to hold on, so hold on. I get that it's a lot harder than just doing it, I get that there's fighting involved and struggle and pain, but you WANT to hold on. It's not a matter of if you can or not, because the only person stopping you is YOU. So if you don't want to give up, if you want to keep going, just do it. At the end of the day, you're living for you anyway and there would be no point throwing away a life if you want to keep living it, right?

You've posted a fair few threads over the last few weeks I've noticed and I haven't necessarily seen all of the replies or what you've said, but knowing the members here, I have no doubt they have given you some pretty excellent advice already. Have you tried following any of it yet? Has any of it helped somewhat? If it has, keep trying with it. It sometimes takes a bit longer than a couple of go's for it to actually benefit you, but at the end of the day, people give advice to help, not to hinder, and if there's even the smallest possibility that it could do you some good, there's no point giving up on it. Talk to someone, get some help, take up a new hobby to keep you distracted, find something you enjoy and do it, have fun, smile, laugh, live. I promise you, as much as you may feel like giving up sometimes, it's best not to. What you're going through right now? Temporary. Giving up? Permanent. Seriously, it's not worth taking such drastic action if it results in you not being able to get through this in better ways.

I know this hasn't been much help, but I wanted you to know that you're in control. Don't act on these thoughts, okay? If you want to live, live, that's all there is to it. If you don't, well...live anyway, because it gets better. It really does. It wont come easy and it wont be quick, but it will happen if you keep fighting. Don't let it win, okay? You're better than this and stronger than any thoughts of that nature will ever be.

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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 27th 2013, 11:47 PM

thanks hollie it has been helping me a little bit


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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 27th 2013, 11:56 PM

Hey girlie, I know what i feels like to feel completly helpless. Im here if you want to chat. Pm me if you want. <3 keep your head up girlie. <3


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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 28th 2013, 12:12 AM

thanks <3 that means a lot


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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 28th 2013, 01:31 AM

Keep fighting the good fight Jen



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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 28th 2013, 01:47 AM

Suicide is never the answer!


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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 28th 2013, 03:37 AM

Hi! I don't know your story but let me tell you that there is a reason you are here and there are people out there who want to invest in you and love you and be your friends and see you grow as a person. People out there WANT to love you and will if you let them!
   
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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 28th 2013, 10:45 AM

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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 28th 2013, 11:07 AM

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Keep fighting the good fight Jen
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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 28th 2013, 11:07 AM

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I really don't know TBH


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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 28th 2013, 10:43 PM

I know there are people on here who rely on you for help, think of what your suicide would do to them.



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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 28th 2013, 10:46 PM

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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 28th 2013, 11:14 PM

This isn't to be mean or anything, but you have 8 threads on this topic on the first page. Have you read the responses and applied the advice to yourself? If you haven't, you should because by all these responses you can see that people care about you and taking your life will not solve your problems, it will create more.

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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 28th 2013, 11:35 PM

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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 29th 2013, 12:22 AM

Well, me for one. I'm an attention whore and don't get very many messages!



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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 29th 2013, 12:27 AM

nice at least you get that


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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 29th 2013, 12:37 AM

Darling please stay strong. You mean so much and are worth so much. Your life is so important. Have you looked at the reasons to live sticky on the Depression and Suicide forum? Look for things that mean a lot to you, it can help.
One thing i promise you: It gets better. I promise it did for me. Please be safe. I care.

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Re: i cant live on :'( - January 29th 2013, 12:40 AM

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