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Angry It's ok, I'm fine. Honest. - March 23rd 2013, 06:21 PM

Over the last week, me trusting others has become a serious issue. The one person I talk to about everything has just thrown it all in my face. She helped me through everything. She is my councillor (sort of) at school. She went behind my back and got a teacher to tell my mum about my recent self-harm. I understand that If its something that harms or puts myself at risk, then she must pass it on, but she promised that she would tell me first and that my mum would not now as she is already know that I do it. I don't see the point of bringing it up to my mum again, she doesn't want to be reminded of how much of a fuck up her eldest daughter is.

When I found out that she passed the information on, I went on a bit of a rampage. I am so depressed at the moment, I feel that I have noone to talk to anymore. I doubt everything and its just horribe. I'm scared that I will cut again.
Now thanks to her, I now have to go back to anger management and I have another Targeted Youth Support Worker (TYS) the subject of gooing to the doctor is geting brought up again. Life couldn't get better. JOKES.

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Re: It's ok, I'm fine. Honest. - March 23rd 2013, 11:10 PM

Don't apologize for venting, having a vent is healthy.

It is a stressful situation you are in. I have been instructed by senior staff to go to the doctors about my depression etc soon else they are going to tell my mum about how I have been at school recently, so I understand, at least a little how you must be feeling.

If you need to talk about anything with anyone then I am here for you, just drop me a message

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Re: It's ok, I'm fine. Honest. - March 24th 2013, 01:13 AM

Thank you so much! I will do :-)


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Re: It's ok, I'm fine. Honest. - March 24th 2013, 01:40 AM

Firstly, you are BEAUTIFUL. Sorry, but that needed to be stated.

Second of all, I believe that she only done this because she is worried about you, but I totaly understand how her doing it with out your acknowledgement is really frustrating, but this does not mean you should lose your trust in her. If she is the only person you can talk to freely then don't push her away. And plus going back to anger management and a TYS worker will help you so much more

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Re: It's ok, I'm fine. Honest. - March 24th 2013, 02:37 PM

Oh wow, Olivia. I'm pretty sure that you didn't copmare me to anyone to come up with that! - But thank you :-)

I suppose so.. Thank you x


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Re: It's ok, I'm fine. Honest. - March 27th 2013, 11:28 PM

Hi, Jade.

So sorry about this! I understand how it could kinda destroy your trust in her, but please don't let it do that because you deserve to have someone to open up to, and it helps you as you found out. I think that she must have been pretty worried about you though and that's why she told your mom. Maybe you could tell her that this upset you and ask her to let you know next time?

In the meantime, how about trying the Self-Harm Alternatives and trying to keep yourself occupied with things you enjoy and that make you happy? It could help you learn how to cope in a healthy way better.

Well you're an amazing girl and I hope you feel better. I'm here if you need someone to talk to, message me anytime. Hang in there, Stay Strong <3
   
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