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Anybody who is seriously considering suicide... -
April 20th 2013, 06:53 PM
If you are seriously considering suicide, please read this first.
Suicide is NOT the answer. What it is that you're going through, I know how you feel. I've been in your shoes before. It's so difficult to feel this bad. However, you shouldn't kill yourself.
There are so many people on this planet whose hearts you've touched. So many people, whom you may not even know yet, that need you in their lives. If you commit suicide now, you will never know what true happiness and strength really feels like.
I know it may not seem like it, but do many people care. I care. Your friends, your family, they care. So many people need you to stay strong.
It may feel like the whole world is against you, like the whole world hates you. But think about it this way: wherever there are people who love you, there are going to be people who hate you. Therefore, wherever you are hated, you are loved. And, plus, if people hate you, they are still taking time out of their pathetic lives to think about YOU. That's how important you are. If people are hating you, you either have/are something they wish they had/were, or you are just that important that people hate your beauty and importance.
Suicide is a permanent solution. It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Once it's done, it's done. There is no taking it back. If you survive an attempt, you will live the rest of your life feeling guilty. I know - I've attempted three times. Don't risk the pain and guilt that you will have to live the rest of your life with if you survive.
I hate seeing you suffer like this. You don't deserve it. Make an effort to end your suffering, please. Get the help that you need. You deserve to live a beautiful, happy life. Don't let this opportunity for happiness get away from you. Don't take it away from yourself.
Don't go through this alone. Talk to us. All of us here in Teen Help want to help you. Please, if after reading this, you're still considering suicide, send me a PM or VM. I can help you, if you would just give me a chance.
"One person can make a difference and everyone should try." Live Help Operator since June 1st, 2013
Last edited by MBach528; April 21st 2013 at 06:09 PM.
Re: Anybody who is seriously considering suicide... -
April 21st 2013, 12:35 AM
Outstanding, MB, outstanding! Most beautifully created inspirational thread i've ever seen. I've been through suicidal thoughts before, the only way i got through them was saying to myself "Suicide is the cowards way out"
Though, LIFE can be BAD, and it can be GOOD, the people who give up when it gets BAD, will never experience the GOOD, and the GOOD side of life is...AMAZING... Nothing more to say about it. its just AMAZING!
"Its not about how hard you can hit life, its about how much you can take...and Keep..Moving..Forward"
-Quote from ROCKY
"In life, we must stand proud, BUT be proud to be standing"
Re: Anybody who is seriously considering suicide... -
April 21st 2013, 03:13 AM
Exactly. I suffered from being suicidal and depressed. The only reason I survived was pure luck. I shouldn't be alive. I'm not saying this in a depressed, "I wish I was dead" way. I simply mean that with how many times I can't close to death, it's very unbelievable that I actually survived. I am, however, very grateful that I survived. Attempting suicide was the biggest mistake of my life, all three times, and I don't want to see anybody make the same mistakes I did.
"One person can make a difference and everyone should try." Live Help Operator since June 1st, 2013
Re: Anybody who is seriously considering suicide... -
April 21st 2013, 03:36 AM
Aah, you're so amazing. I know that I've struggled a lot and sometimes have even planned suicide but so far I've been able to find reasons to stay here. Posts like what you just made are inspirational and motiavte me to keep going, thank you so much for posting this.
Re: Anybody who is seriously considering suicide... -
April 21st 2013, 03:51 AM
Oh, you're so very welcome, Dez. Suicide is a difficult topic, and I just hope to be able to help people going through what I have. I'm very glad that you have been able to find reasons to continue fighting. Stay strong, sweetie.
"One person can make a difference and everyone should try." Live Help Operator since June 1st, 2013
Re: Anybody who is seriously considering suicide... -
April 21st 2013, 02:49 PM
I've personally struggled with what I believe to be depression, and another personality disorder since I was about 11 or 12. I've attempted a few times in the past, usually when things are really bad and stress has reached a really high level. But recently, about a month ago actually I did it without even thinking and clued into what I was doing mid attempt :s. I've realised I have people to live for. believe it or not, a dream made me realise what I'd miss out on the most.