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Post How to tell everyone I'm going out? - October 6th 2015, 07:33 PM

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I don't care what you say. I have a plan. On this Thursday I am going go slit my own throat in my room so no one can see me bleed. My parents will discover my corpse in about two hours when they try to wake me up from my "nap" and they will see me. I don't care what they think or have to go through, because they still won't have gone through as much as I have. My friends? I'm telling them in advance and hoping they don't tell anyone. How do I tell them that I am leaving and how can I write a good suicide note? If you ask why I am posting this, I guess it's just to say that I failed at life and I hope you can do better than I did.
   
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Re: How to tell everyone I'm going out? - October 6th 2015, 08:37 PM

First off I'm sorry that you're feeling this way. I'm available to talk if you want to talk about anything. Secondly, I don't think we're aloud to give ideas on what to put in a note. Thirdly I do hope you reconsider and talk to someone about how you're feeling. You do matter and people do care about you..


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Re: How to tell everyone I'm going out? - October 6th 2015, 08:38 PM

I'm so sorry. You must be struggling so much to even have this plan in place.

No one here is going to assist you in writing a suicide note. That is a step towards attempting we will not help you take. Not because we don't care, but because we do care. I don't want anything to happen to you.

Everyone fails at some things and failing at some things in life is a positive later on. Failing helps us accept we are human and have flaws for one thing and secondly, failing is a way of learning and growing. How else would we improve as people, at skills, at life in general if we never made mistakes to learn from? Making mistakes isn't an ending, it is to be human and it is a beginning by learning new things and growing. We can all do better as a result of making mistakes.

The fact that you posted this makes me feel as a part of you deep inside wants to be convinced not to attempt. I'm glad you posted this actually. Life isn't easy but it's always worth it. I don't know the full story of what's going on, but it will be okay. There's your entire future ahead of you. Take a moment, please, and just think about the future. There is bound to always be a better day ahead of the difficult ones. We just have to listen to what hardships try to teach us and keep holding on. Happiness is always just around the corner. Life's a roller coaster so when the downs are happening too often, embrace and live for the ups. Think about all the experiences you could have in your future. The people you may meet, the potential you have, the amazing experiences you'll have and the places you'll see. You're so much stronger than you think.

Make a list of reasons to live similar to this thead but a more personalized list that suits your dreams and goals. Right now, please reach out to someone to keep yourself safe and away from your original plan. Hear me out, I know you must have been through a lot in your life but I truly, truly believe there will be points in your future where you are thankful you never went through with suicide. Reach out to your parents and your friends and let them know how bad things have gotten for you. Let them in, let them help. Your parents and friends love you and care for you so much. They'd be devastated if you weren't here anymore. Just don't be alone. If you feel unsafe, you can call a hotline and I also encourage you to go to the hospital as they will keep you safe and give you someone to talk to.

I am worried you will go through with this. I hope you don't. I hope you post again letting us know you are okay. Please keep holding on, okay? You can beat this.

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Re: How to tell everyone I'm going out? - October 8th 2015, 12:46 PM

you must be going through so much to feel that way.. but what i know is that

It is impossible to fail life. There's always a second chance . Always.

I don't think you are ever a failure. Everyone has qualities others wished they'd have, and everyone has a talent that only they can call their own.. so do you. No point overlooking what you have. I'm sure that there's things you do better than other people. There also will be times where you thought you were gonna start frowning, and cry .. but then it'll turn out that you are going to smile so wide, your lips hurt. There's no point thinking too much about what you did wrong.. time will end up forgiving everything.

What you can do for others .... there's too much. There's charity, there's funds, and there's causes where you make people smile by doing favors for the people who are less fortunate-favors for people who might lack limbs or do not know what happiness means.

You have so much power. And i reassure you that whatever happened in the past, stays in the past. This is the future and i know that yours is bright.

I second what Ellie said, and i too want to say that we're always here. I'm just a pm away you are strong. You can overcome these feelings and experience happiness.


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Re: How to tell everyone I'm going out? - October 8th 2015, 02:51 PM

Hi there.

I am so sorry you are going through this right now. I can't begin to understand what you are going through or how you must be feeling but I know it must be really hard for you.

Nobody on this site is going to help you write a suicide note. Why? Because A)its against the rules and B)We care about you and don't want to help you kill yourself in any way. I know what you are going through is hard but I also know that it's not going to last forever and that things, for you, can get better, whether you believe that right now or not. So I hope that you keep holding on for the rest of your life which can honestly be turned around and become something amazing and something you love and enjoy.

Nothing is going to just make all of this okay. No one can wave a magic wand and make all the bad stuff go and make good stuff come in an instant. But things can get better. You can have the good stuff instead of the bad stuff but you're going to have to give it time to work too. And even more importantly, you're going to have to work with people and work with yourself and meet people half way to get better because no one can help you, if you're not working with them and not helping yourself to get through this, which can actually be a really hard thing to do when we feel low but is something we sometimes have to force ourselves to do, you know?

I think that you coming here is a part of you saying that actually, you want help. That you're struggling and you're actually screaming out for help inside. And know that we are here for you. Always. And if you know what is making you feel this way and want to talk about it, please do because we're here to listen and to support you but we can't help you if you don't let us in more. We'll do what ever we can to help you through this though. And if you don't feel ready to talk then that's okay too. Just know that when you are ready, we're right here. Okay?

I know this is scary and I know feeling this way is no way to live, but trust me, it gets better. You won't always feel the way you are feeling now and I believe in you. I know you can do this and fight through to the other side. You gotta believe in yourself and fight for it all. I hope, really hope, that you stay safe and keep your chin up because you deserve to see the beautiful life that you can actually have.

Remember we're all here for you. You're welcome to PM me anytime. You've got this. Stick at it and fight.

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