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Can't do this anymore - December 20th 2017, 04:11 PM

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I'm sorry I keep posting. But I really can't do this anymore. It's just a vicious cycle of me wallowing in self pity for hours on end. Instead of studying in my room, I'm just staring into spaace. I have exams in around 2 weeks one of which I'm resitting, I can't afford to fail a resit. If I carry on like this I won't even get the grades to get into uni. I kind of feel like I won't get in anyway. I just feel like I'm dying everyday more and more. My question is how do I focus and ignore all my heartbreak and everything else? I know it sound a cheesy and all but oh well. Thank you


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Re: Can't do this anymore - December 20th 2017, 04:58 PM

Don't worry about sounding cheesy, your concerns and struggles are valid. Do you have anyone you can reach out to, such as a friend or a trusted adult. You say you have a hard time concentrating on your studies, do you think you could get together with a group of classmates and do some studying together? Another thing is, and I don't know how you feel about it but it's definitely something to consider, have you thought about reaching out to a therapist or a counselor? This can be beneficial because they can work through things with you, find alternate/healthy coping methods, and even prescribe medicine if they think it's necessary. But it's really up to you to make that decision.

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Re: Can't do this anymore - December 20th 2017, 05:38 PM

Hello, I am sorry that you are having a hard time with this right now. Can you try talking with you're school counselor and letting them know that you need extra help and see if they can get you a tutor to help you with this? Or can you try talking with you're teacher's and see if they can help you with you're work before or after school, or find a group of friends like was said up above and see if you all can do you're work together.

When you are having a hard time try putting on music or a funny movie to make you laugh some and hopefully that will pick you up. Also try going for a walk too. I hope you will be ok soon. Hugs.
   
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Re: Can't do this anymore - December 21st 2017, 06:29 PM

Hi there,

I'm sorry that you're struggling a lot currently. I wish there was more I could do to help you, but hopefully my words will help a bit. When it came to my depression/anxiety/bipolar in school, I always found it so hard to concentrate on studying or school. Until I went on medication, I found a couple ways to cope with the racing thoughts. I started listening to music, chewing gum, studying in different areas.

I hope that you can find some peace and support in these suggestions.

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Re: Can't do this anymore - December 22nd 2017, 02:08 PM

Thank you all for your help


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Re: Can't do this anymore - December 23rd 2017, 09:24 PM

How are you feeling today? Are you feeling any better?



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Re: Can't do this anymore - December 24th 2017, 04:16 PM

Yeah, it keeps coming and going, like I've been feeling like very suicidal for around a month/3 weeks now, and then it suddenly disappears for a while and then it shows up again. Anyway, thanks for asking


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Re: Can't do this anymore - December 24th 2017, 10:39 PM

Have you considered going to see a doctor? I highly recommend you do, to see if there's mental illness involved. It sounds like there might be, but we here can't diagnose you.



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Re: Can't do this anymore - December 24th 2017, 11:02 PM

Yeah, I know there's obviously something wrong with me and the best course of action is to see a doctor but I can't risk anyone finding out right now. Maybe when I turn 18 (I put the wrong year when I was making this account I'm 17 and I don't know how to change my bday) I can go without my parents noticing.


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Re: Can't do this anymore - December 24th 2017, 11:09 PM

What month do you turn 18? Some doctors won't tell your parents if you have to go see them after you turn 16



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Re: Can't do this anymore - December 24th 2017, 11:16 PM

I turn 18 in June, I live in England btw.


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