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I'm sick of everything!!!! - June 16th 2009, 12:31 AM

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God!! I am sooooo sick of everything!! This is the worst summer I have had!! My family is driving me crazy. My dad keeps bugging me about religion when I talk to him on the phone. My mom and my grandma, who is visiting, are not listening to me. They never believe me, they always believe my younger sister who is always b*tchy. My sister in a big liar and she has a big mouth. No one cares. No one would care if I go. No one would care if I die. No one would care. I hate myself and everyone hates me. I don't know if I could make it through the summer.
   
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Re: I'm sick of everything!!!! - June 16th 2009, 01:51 AM

Sometimes summer is the hardest season to get through because you are left with your family for so long that just seeing them becomes a trigger. Maybe you should try to talk to a counselour about them. Although it might be a hard thing to do, a family therapy session can help you understand your family and viceversa.

In the meantime, realize people do care about you. Everyone on this website hopes you are okay. By posting on this forum, you prove that you aren't 100% sure you want to die. Somewhere deep down there is still hope that somebody can help you. PM me if you need someone to help you calm down/you just want to talk to someone.
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Re: I'm sick of everything!!!! - June 16th 2009, 01:54 AM

Why did I even post, no one understands...
   
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Re: I'm sick of everything!!!! - June 16th 2009, 02:35 AM

just shut up. that's what i'm telling you. you can't forget that someone always understands. and besides, you making that post and asking for help proves that you really don't want to die. as my favorite saying goes, 'once you hit rock bottom, the only way to go is up'. i've experienced this myself. things can only get better. so i'm telling you to shut up, stop complaining and fix your life. because you're the only one who can.
   
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Re: I'm sick of everything!!!! - June 16th 2009, 02:44 AM

I've noticed that summers are bad for most people. I know this hurt and you think that no one's there.. But people are, even some you may not even realize.. Please hold on!!


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Re: I'm sick of everything!!!! - June 16th 2009, 03:01 AM

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just shut up. that's what i'm telling you. you can't forget that someone always understands. and besides, you making that post and asking for help proves that you really don't want to die. as my favorite saying goes, 'once you hit rock bottom, the only way to go is up'. i've experienced this myself. things can only get better. so i'm telling you to shut up, stop complaining and fix your life. because you're the only one who can.
Trust me...I've tried and you are so not helping!!
   
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Re: I'm sick of everything!!!! - June 16th 2009, 03:39 AM

so try again! once you're knocked down, just get the hell back up and start over. it's never too late to begin again.
   
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Re: I'm sick of everything!!!! - June 16th 2009, 04:21 AM

NIKKI! Don't do it!
I know SuburbanTiger is being a little harsh. (No offense at all.)
If you left, I'd feel terrible.

1. If you don't want to hear about religion from your dad, avoid calling him. I wouldn't avoid picking up the phone, though, because that makes people worry about you, and they go ballistic when they get ahold of you again. Trust me on this one.

2. Avoid your younger sister completely. If I were you, I'd go for walks outside and stay away from her too. She can't accuse you of something if you're not there. Also, why not talk to your grandma alone, when she's away from your mom? Usually, grandparents sympathize with their grandkids when the 'common enemy' isn't there. In other words, your mom.

3. Are you going away to college? You mentioned this in a PM to me. Then, you won't have a curfew, and you'll be away from these maniacs for a good 9 months. Then, maybe you'll make friends with someone and you can go live at the beach or something.

My sister said that college is the REAL fun part of your life- all you need to deal with is studying and taking care of yourself. You can even take classes at night if you want! Think about that!!
   
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Re: I'm sick of everything!!!! - June 16th 2009, 06:23 PM

Nikki, your post made me smile. My grandma is stubborn but she is a good person. My mom is great but my sister is still so mean. But, you are right. I guess I just needed some encouragement. I have major moodswings sometimes.
   
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Wink Re: I'm sick of everything!!!! - June 16th 2009, 08:24 PM

Look I know a lot of people post on here just to bitch and not listen to anyone. I don't think you are here for that. Sometimes well almost always the harshest advice is the best. Tiger was just simply trying to get you to listen because being nice didn't seem to help. No one can stop you from feeling this but you so take the advice. Stop going a million miles an hour and relax and think about the good things in life.

While I am chronically depressed if I try I can still find the good throughout the bad. The best way to deal with your sister is to avoid her. The more you make it seem it's getting to you the more she will do it. All kids are like this one time or another and trust me I'm pretty sure my younger brother is worse than your sister. Once when he was eight he had my mom on the ground in tears threatening to commit suicide and you know what he did? He said I don't care and handed her a knife.

People will always have it worse than you so remember that. To get your dad off your back just agree with everything he says this will make your life much easier. Maybe attend church and tell him you will give it a try. Well I myself am atheist I find that some people just don't understand other peoples views because they can;t see through their stubborn wall of ignorance.

Now before I get flamed in a religion war I didn't mean religion was ignorant just how it makes some people stubborn. I don't like rap but I don't judge people for liking. While that is on a smaller scale I still think it makes sense.

Stop blocking people out. You came here for advice but you don't seem like you want to take any. Today I found out I can't go to the beach visit most of my friends or go to warped tour which means all summer I'm going to be alone with my asshole of a dad while everyone else goes to the beach. Everyone I know goes to the beach 1-5 times a summer and I haven't been to the beach since I can remember. Also my dad kicked me out for three weeks and to celebrate he took my family to a lake in the mountains and isn't afraid to brag about it.

In short chill out rethink everything and don't be afraid to take peoples advice.
   
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Re: I'm sick of everything!!!! - June 16th 2009, 08:49 PM

I don't think you understand. My life is not going a million miles per minute, it's like one mile per minute. My life is slow and that is why I am depressed and to top it off, my Grandma visits and basically bites my head off.
   
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Re: I'm sick of everything!!!! - June 16th 2009, 10:18 PM

I know SuburbanTiger is being a little harsh. (No offense at all.)

yeah, i know i'm being a little harsh (sorry) but i think that when someone is thinking these thoughts, what they need is a good strong talking to. sorry if i sound mean when i do it though. i lost my dad to suicide, so i know how it feels. remember, if you leave we'll all really miss you! PM me anytime you want to.
   
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