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feeling soo sad... - July 3rd 2009, 01:06 PM

I feel so terribly depressed lately!I mean when my friends are around,i'm okay..but when i'm alone,i feel so so lonely and depressed...
1)I still haven't got the college i want. cant get over the regret bout my marks..i know i could have done better.
2)Love sucks. Heartbreak sucks. I wonder if i'll ever love again.
3)He seems to have pretty much moved on while i still realllly reallly miss him..i feel this pang inside me every time i think of him..
4)Though i dont want to i still feel extremely annoyed every time i hear bout someone getting a good college thru payment seat!!i mean,HELL!!THEY DONT EVEN DESERVE IT!
5)I'm soo lonely...i mean i'm not even ready for anyone else yet..i'm still kinda hurt nd don wanna get into all that again..but i'm still terribly lonely.
6)I wanna go back in time nd fix everything nd start over again..nd be happy now!!
7)Why am i going thru this??I mean i feel like all my life i've been depressed..i've always had something bothering me or the pressures of life getting to me no matter how much i try to be truly,deeply happy.

I REALLY WONDER IF I'LL EVER BE CONTENT AND PEACEFUL...THE LONELINESS,THE HURT,THE REGRET,THE SORROW.....ITS JUST TOOOO MUCH TO TAKE!!! HELP ME..

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Re: feeling soo sad... - July 3rd 2009, 02:07 PM

Hey Phoenix,

I am really sorry that you are feeling like this at the moment. It sounds like you have some really difficult emotions to deal with. Feelings do change in time and the loneliness and the hurt you feel can lesson.

Having regrets about what you could/should have done is not going to help you. That will only hold you back and make you feel more depressed. You need to focus on what you have achieved and not what you could have done better. If you keep having regrets about things you should have done better then that is going to hold you back. You might have been able to do better in your grades. But the thing is you can't change that now so you have to focus towards the future because that can be changed.

You say you are not ready for anyone else but you are lonely. You need to give yourself time and not just rush into a relationship. Perhaps just spending time with friends for the time being would be a good idea. It would take your mind off how you are feeling and it can help to lift your mood.

If you ever need anything then you are more than welcome to PM me. Stay strong and don't give up :-)
   
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