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Unhappy I dont deserve this - July 7th 2009, 03:00 PM

I get up every morning at 8 to go to work. HE DOESNT HAVE A JOB yet he does what he feels, doesnt clean up, plays games, and treats me like CRAP who knew that when i was getting married i was signing away my life to a different guy then the one id know later? Wy is it ok to be yelled and cussed at when all you want is love. Ive always had a low self esteem.. i never get compliments even from my own husband. my moms dead. and the whole world seems useless sometimes. i wish i had a time machine.. so i could go back to before the pain, before the heartache.. and so that i could make sure i knew what i was getting myself into.. thats puppy love for you.. you are so sure, until you get proved wrong. and everything you sstruggled to build up inside yourself.. comes crashing down.
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Re: I dont deserve this - July 7th 2009, 05:37 PM

The title you gave this post says it all. You don't deserve that, so why are you staying in the relationship?

Perhaps we all give the best of our hearts uncritically;
to those who hardly think about us in return.

it's not that we want to die; it's that we want to live
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Re: I dont deserve this - July 7th 2009, 05:40 PM

You don't have joint bank accounts, do you? Should you decide to get divorced, I'd recommend changing that.
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Re: I dont deserve this - July 7th 2009, 07:46 PM

You're right you don't deserve that. You deserve so much better. You deserve somebody that will treat you with respect and dignity. This is your choice. You can either stay in the position you are in and be upset and feel bad for yourself OR you can do something about it. You can tell him how you feel, I know you think that he won't care but us guys actually DO care about what people want but we aren't ones to ask. We wait until you meaning the girl tell us. You should try talking to him, I mean like really sitting down just the two of you and talk about how you feel.

You don't deserve this and I'm glad you realize this but only you can actually do that.

I know you know the right choice, but we can't make it for you. It's all up to you.

Please, make the right choice. You don't deserve what you are going through and the longer you stay in this sticky situation the harder it will be to break free.

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