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Fuck my life - July 24th 2009, 03:03 AM

I feel like life fucking hates me..It seems like I can't do anything right. I'm in a really pissy mood and don't know why. I can't think straight. I just feel like crying but I can't cry because i've taught myself not to cry. Why am I so fucked up? Can anyone please help nme?


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Re: Fuck my life - July 24th 2009, 03:25 AM

I don't know how much help I can be, but I'm here if you want to talk more about it. I don't know you personally, but I don't think that you're a horrible person. I know how you feel; I get bouts of negative feelings like that sometimes, it sucks. If there's anything I can do, let me know.


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Re: Fuck my life - July 24th 2009, 12:20 PM

I'm sure your not a horrible person and your not fucked up at all sometimes it just gets really hard and nothing seems to go the way we want it too, I've been there but trust me It gets better, I can promise you that. Why do you feel so bad?
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Re: Fuck my life - July 24th 2009, 05:07 PM

Hey there Frankie,

Life doesn’t hate you and you can do things right. You’re feeling as though you can’t do anything right because you’re in a bad mood and when we’re in a bad mood it’s easy to shun anything that’s positive and keep thinking ‘oh, I’m rubbish at everything’ even when it’s blatantly not true. When we’re upset or irritable then our thinking is often irrational and we’re unstable.
Being here is just one piece of proof that you can do things right. You’re not feeling great but you’re here, asking for help. Asking for help, support or advice is a ‘right’ thing to do when you’re not feeling your best and you should recognise that and be proud of yourself for doing that.
If you want to cry then cry. Crying is actually quite good for you, so give yourself permission to cry if you need to, Frankie. If you can’t cry then try and get things down another way – however you express yourself best. You could talk to someone, write something down or paint or anything else that you find helps you to express and ‘let out’ your feelings because it doesn’t help to keep them all bottled up. You’re not messed up, you’re just struggling right now, but you will feel better – you’re not going to feel like this permanently, Frankie.

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Re: Fuck my life - July 24th 2009, 05:41 PM

Hey there, Frankie! =]

I'm sorry you're feeling so down at the moment! I know that it must be so horrible feeling like that; but just try to remember that things can always get better. You can and will have happy times again, you just have to fight through these feelings to get to that point. I'm glad that you're talking to us on here, it's much better than keeping all those emotions and thoughts bottled up inside!

As bad as things are right now, you need to focus on the little happy things. Perhaps even get out a piece of paper and write down all the things that make you smile! It can be something really tiny, like a favorite TV show or song. Or something bigger, like a loved one. Seeing all the good things written down can be very effective in helping you see that the bad times always pass.

You know, Frankie, like Stephanie said, there is absolutely nothing wrong with crying! We all need to cry sometimes! If you feel like crying, that's probably because you really need to. It's a good way to let out all those emotions, keeping them inside you is just too much to handle! So, let yourself cry if you need to, it's perfectly fine.

You aren't messed up, Frankie, not at all. You're just feeling really bad right now, and that can make everything seem so terrible. But you're a great person and you deserve to be happy. So keep your eye on the happy things, all right? Don't let the bad things consume you.

We're all here if you need us, Frankie. PM me if you ever need somebody to talk to. Hang in there, yeah? Stay strong. <3
   
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Re: Fuck my life - July 24th 2009, 06:17 PM

I try to think of positive things and everything but it doesnt work...nothing seems to work anymore...I've talked to people about my feelings and it helps a little bit but they are still there and won't go away.


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It's okay not to be okay
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