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I just dont know anymore - October 22nd 2009, 11:14 PM

I honestly have no clue what to do anymore, my whole life is in shambles, my parents refuse to believe anything i say to them is true, everything is a lie, everything is second guessed, im sick of feeling this way, i cant honestly say i've been "happy" for more than a period of a day throughout the course of a week throughout a1.5 year period. On my way home from work today i thought about just driving off the road with my seatbelt off the only thing that stopped me is the thought that im all my dad has left in his life. thats the only thing that stops me everytime i think about it. but with the way our relationship is going im not sure if its enough to keep me going anymore. I'm afraid to ask for help because i think my parents will just think its a ploy or a lie to get them off my back about something else. Im literally on the edge and i haven't the faintest clue what to do about any of it.........
   
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Re: I just dont know anymore - October 23rd 2009, 01:12 AM

You can start off with talking to your mom and telling her that it isnt anything she did but that their are alot of things going on that you dont think your mom would understand and you think it would be better if she gets you help

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Re: I just dont know anymore - October 29th 2009, 08:53 AM

First of dont care about what they think. if you think that you need help then dont let anyone stop you from getting it.
your doing this for you not for them. Ask yourself whats the worse that can happen if you tell your parents you want help? what? that they will think your lieing? Well if you feel they think that anyway then why let that stop you. Its a sign of strength asking for help and that alone is the first step to recovery. sit your dad down and tell him whats going on in your head and how you feel make sure you let him know your serious. and if he still says no then explain to him that its really crappy of him and that he's not doing his job as a father.
   
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Re: I just dont know anymore - November 1st 2009, 12:09 AM

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I honestly have no clue what to do anymore, my whole life is in shambles, my parents refuse to believe anything i say to them is true, everything is a lie, everything is second guessed, im sick of feeling this way, i cant honestly say i've been "happy" for more than a period of a day throughout the course of a week throughout a1.5 year period. On my way home from work today i thought about just driving off the road with my seatbelt off the only thing that stopped me is the thought that im all my dad has left in his life. thats the only thing that stops me everytime i think about it. but with the way our relationship is going im not sure if its enough to keep me going anymore. I'm afraid to ask for help because i think my parents will just think its a ploy or a lie to get them off my back about something else. Im literally on the edge and i haven't the faintest clue what to do about any of it.........
i know how you feel... my parents and friends are all like that too... they don't believe me, even when right now i'm about ready to give up on everything...
   
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