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Exclamation I'm not okay!!!! - October 30th 2009, 06:38 PM

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I can't keep it in any longer. I'm not okay!

IM NOT OKAY!!!!!


Someone please respond????

I feel so freaking alone and invisible and nobody talks to me anymore. I try to reconnect but I'm really busy with school and trying to find a job and keeping up with housework and taking care of pets and trying to keep my relationship with my boyfriend going.


But I just want to die. I miss so many people and I'm just tired of feeling so sad.

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Re: I'm not okay!!!! - October 30th 2009, 07:10 PM

I am here and will listen are you there?
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Re: I'm not okay!!!! - October 30th 2009, 08:25 PM

I'm here.

It's just been so tough lately. Friends don't want to talk to me anymore because I'm so busy with school. It sucks and I'm living with my boyfriend but he works ALOT and I have school so it's real hard to find time to spend together. Especially with my homework. And I just wish...things were different...
   
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Re: I'm not okay!!!! - October 30th 2009, 09:33 PM

Honey, it's okay. It's gonna be fine. Just take a moment and breathe. Just breathe. Go outside. Run. Write. Sing. Let it all out. It will be just fine.


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Re: I'm not okay!!!! - October 31st 2009, 06:27 PM

Would it help at all to find something to do or someplace to go where you could meet up with more people and hopefully make some new connections?

I'm really sorry that you feel this way, I completely understand and I know how horrible it feels to think that no one cares, but I promise you that that is not the case


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Re: I'm not okay!!!! - October 31st 2009, 06:43 PM

I know how hard it is to lose friends and to be and feel so alone. Its even harder when you feel like giving up. is there anything that u enjoy doing for you? like anything that u do that makes u feel a little better- like running, writing, getting ur nails done. something like that? i know how hard it is to make friends and to find time with friends when you are in school because it takes up so much time. thats why if u maybe find sometime to do things for yourself that will help.
i know that right now everything is hard and it seems to all be falling apart. but there are people who care about you, like your bf. if you ever need to talk or anything, you can PM me. i am always here. i dont know exactly what you are going through, and honestly no one can know because they are not living your life, but i have been through similar things and have figured out how to live with myself in this world.
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Re: I'm not okay!!!! - October 31st 2009, 09:57 PM

Aww, thats sad...well im here I can talk any time, im usually online. And im sure you are not alone, there are people out there who love you! And i know how hard it is to lose friends, but after awhile everyone just gets over it and its not as bad...just dont give up. Heaps of people are prepared to help you!

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Re: I'm not okay!!!! - October 31st 2009, 11:48 PM

Sometimes we do lose contact with our friends. If your trying to make time for everyone maybe try and say like an hour out of your day you phone someone (an old friend maybe) and talk to them for that hour and every day you phone someone different. You can't spend every minute of yuor day with housework and homework. You need to look after yourself as well. I know housework sucks i hate doing it to but i only do housework for 2 hours out of my day. Maybe try writing out a daily plan that is divided into time slots of an hour so you can equally spend you time doing things that need to get done. If you are struggling to find for your boyfriend one night where he isnt working maybe cook dinner for him and light some candles and just sit down with him enjoy the meal and talk to each other.
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Re: I'm not okay!!!! - November 1st 2009, 11:25 AM

Wow, thank you all so much.

I've been having many discussions with my boyfriend lately, and letting him know how I've been feeling. Today we went to my old town and hung out with my old best friend. It was really great.

He's going to try and work out my financial issues with me this coming week, and he said he will start helping me with my homework on the weekends so we can both be productive and still spend time with each other.

Also, the past two nights he has made me STOP doing homework after 10pm so then we both relax together watching tv, then go to bed. So far it all seems to be working well. And I thank you all so very very much for responses.

I cannot even begin to express how much all of your responses brightened my mood.

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Re: I'm not okay!!!! - November 1st 2009, 04:27 PM

thats so great to hear that you saw your old best friend and that your bf is being so helpful and supportive! im so happy that he is going to be helping you out and that he is going to have you stop doing work at a certain time so that the two of you can just relax together!
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Re: I'm not okay!!!! - November 2nd 2009, 07:37 PM

I am so happy that things are doing good. Just hold in there sweety. Things will get better one day. You were so brave to reach out and that means that you are strong.
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Re: I'm not okay!!!! - November 5th 2009, 05:45 PM

hey! it's good that things are starting to get better for you

keep holding on....
   
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