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It Hurts. - January 9th 2010, 11:09 PM

This sucks. What has my life become? It takes so much more to make me happy these days. I feel like I've lost all of my friends and all of my sanity. High schools been over for almost 2 years, and so went with it the friendships. I've lost most of my connections and since everyone else just loooves college they're all fine. It doesn't even seem to phase them that they lost me as a friend along the way because they have new friends now, new lives now. I never thought I'd be one of the ones to lose her way in college. But shit, have I lost my way. Lost it more than I ever knew possible. Now I'm just wandering aimlessly, with nowhere to belong.

It hurts so much. It hurts it hurts it hurts it hurts it hurts it hurts. I don't think there's any worse feeling than this aimless feeling. Nowhere to go, nowhere to belong, no point for your existence. I know there's supposedly is a point to my existence and maybe one day I will serve a purpose, but for now...this just sucks. I just suck and am doing nothing but take up space. I hate it all right now, hate it with everything that I am. I don't have energy anymore, to sit or stand or smile or be happy. Everything has gone from me but the misery.
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Re: It Hurts. - January 9th 2010, 11:20 PM

I know exactly how you feel except I'm not out of highschool yet. All but two of my friends are strangers now. I've drifted away from them and they don't seem at all bothered, just a little bit awkward when we pass in the halls and dissaproving when they see me doing things like skipping class. I don't care at all anymore, simply because I just don't have the energy to and I'm tired of trying to care. I know what you mean about feeling lost, I feel like I'm just taking up space right now. I really hope that you can find the strength to feel better and that you find something that you love and do it and I think that you can find your way. You can message me if you ever want to and ya just honestly, I have faith that you won't be lost forever. <3

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Re: It Hurts. - January 9th 2010, 11:36 PM

Ask yourself "If I was happy, how would life be different than it is now?" It may be hard to imagine if you've been in emotional pain for a long time, but try to write as much as you can about what your life would be like. Then try to pick out the things in your "happy" life that you actually have control over and can work towards. Something like winning the lottery isn't realistic, but there are probably going to be several things that you do have control over. Make them specific and realistic goals.



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Re: It Hurts. - January 11th 2010, 06:53 PM

Hey there. Perhaps try to find your way again. If it is just about losing friendships then why not try and get new friends since you are in college.

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