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Super Depressed - January 20th 2010, 06:31 AM

I'm so upset right now, being alone every day is unbearable, I haven't been out of my house since the second of this month. I could go out if I wanted, but I don't want to because I know everyone thinks badly of me, even if they say they don't and their is no outright reason to think so. I can read people really well though, I pay way too much attention to peoples actions and emotions, it rules my life. The only way I can comfortable socialize with people is if I'm high on something, so i've been debating meth as my release tomorrow.
I was diagnosed with Avoidant Personality Disorder over two years ago along with Bipolar.
I hate being a loner, I hate it more than anything, but I don't know how to be like a normal person,or how to interact with normal people. It hurts.
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Re: Super Depressed - January 20th 2010, 08:13 AM


sometimes when people think badly of us, we should just ignore what they think.. because the fact is that there are some people out there who will appreciate you as you, and will not hesitate to take your hand in friendship. i understand that you are having avoidant personality disorder..however, it is ONLY psychological . once you overcome that mindset, everything will be much better for you . Always remember that...

and i think its possible to stop using stuff such as meth and still mix around comfortably. you can definitely do it.. all that you have to do is overcome your negativeness. alright?

we all believe in you.. go out there and have fun mixing around. because you deserve to.. remember that we are all always around in case you wanna talk or just need someone to listen .

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Re: Super Depressed - January 21st 2010, 06:08 AM

I'm like that to a certain degree but how i've kept myself going is by doing at least 2 classes at the local jc every semester. It somehow keeps me going. Maybe you should worry more about interaction with God for now. Trust me if you tell him all your pain and share all your feelings with Him you might actually start to feel a bit more like pushing forward and getting out. Somehow knowing that no matter what i do God will always love me and cry when i do and be happy when i am, just makes it better somehow.
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Re: Super Depressed - January 21st 2010, 07:00 AM

Normal is just a word that people use to bring people down. Just cuz your arnt like them doesn't make you are any worse then them. So what if you are different from other people. This may be harder for you then it is for me but i just dont care what others think of me. I stoped letting others judge me long ago and i feel so much better for it. I mean its your life not theirs. Just be yourself. Srry if this didnt help much. Stay strong!
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Re: Super Depressed - January 23rd 2010, 03:39 AM

From one loner to another, just because you are a loner doesn't mean you can't have friends. We just prefer spending more time alone. Naturally, you will have few friends and when you have many you will find yourself "subtracting them". For us it does take time to make friends, but go out and enjoy yourself when you can and the friendship will find you, don't worry.
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