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Im a looser - January 25th 2010, 03:51 AM

I know i just posted something 10 minutes ago but i have another problem... I want to leave this place, i don't want this type of life, my city is not where i should be, i want to leave this place and go somewhere where the roses are red. Here the flowers turn black when i walk through the streets of Montreal. I have no friends here, i want to start over...
   
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Re: Im a looser - January 25th 2010, 04:24 AM

Never think of suicide, you are still young and have many more years to come, it might not be the best time in your life right now, but things would get better as time goes by.

I've been experiencing some tough times a year back, i was quite depressive for years, until i starts to approach new groups of people. You will have new friends who appreciate who you are, just be outgoing and never get angry at anyone. Start to build your new character and start out fresh with your positive images, i believe every one could change and can be accepted.

Things will change, it will be better, although it might be slightly, but it will be great in the long run.
   
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Re: Im a looser - January 28th 2010, 12:53 AM

Hi Drew.
If you're dreaming of suicide maybe you should dream of living instead? Think of that place where you can be. You could get there.
I know that you're being metaphorical here, but bear with me for a minute as I continue with your metaphore.
If you choose to end your life, what are the chances of ever seeing how red the roses are?
None.
Because we know that suicide is a sin. And you won't get to go to heaven and you'll never know what it looks like when the flowers are in bloom.
Staying for a few more years is enough and then you'll be able to see everything that you've been waiting for.

Now I think I'm done with that.
I hope you get what I'm saying.
Living means you get the chance to be happy. You wouldn't know what happiness was if there was never sadness.
And Gosh, I know the emptiness you must be feeling. You aren't alone.

Shoot me a PM if you need to talk about anything. I'll get back to you as soon as I can.


And no matter what my heart [</3] says
I have to let you walk away
maybe someday

I can't fight for you anymore
But it's too hard to watch you fall.
I can't fight for you anymore
But watching you go breaks my heart
I can't fight for you anymore
But I want to.
   
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Re: Im a looser - January 28th 2010, 01:00 AM

Suicide is very final, and when you are dead, you cannot do anything. I'd rather be alive and walking than be dead, and unable to feel or do anything ever again. Death is depressing and it doesn't solve anything and won't make anything better, so please, never even consider suicide. You may not have many friends now but soon you will meet people along the line. Trust me, I used to feel very lonely and depressed, but I found friends, I found a better solution than being down and now I'm better, I help people. Or at least, I hope I am helpful.
   
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Re: Im a looser - January 30th 2010, 07:35 PM

Drew, though life can be challenging and sometimes unbearable, you should not let it be made unbearable. Live your life.
And then also,if you are talking about living in a better place just give it time to come. The time will come when you will live where you want to live.
I hope i helped.
   
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