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Exclamation The pain is just to much - February 10th 2010, 09:35 PM

i really cant take this anymore i dont even understand why i'm like this
i make myself feel sick so its no wonder no one cares about me i cant do this anymore whats the point it's not like anyone will miss me. The endless crying, the sleepless nights, the constant bullying, and all the loneliness why am i even putting myself through all of this when i could just end it all.
   
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Re: The pain is just to much - February 10th 2010, 11:50 PM

Hey there,

I am sorry that you are struggling so much. I know sometimes the daily struggle makes life hard to live but I promise you can make it through this. It is going to be a long and hard road but you can come out on top. I believe that you are stronger than the sadness you are feeling.

Is there anyway you could talk to your parents about this? I know talking to parents about stuff like this can be hard but in the end I am sure they will try to do their best to help you get better.

Have you ever considered going to a therapist? They are definitely scary to go to the first time but the more you go the more comfortable you get. And, they really do help. If you find the right therapist you can get so much help.

As for the bullying; who is bullying you? If it is someone from school have you thought of talking to school officials? I know that where I live we have a very strict policy on bullying and maybe it will be the same for your area?

If, however the bullying is taking place at home, an older sibling or something, I suggest that you talk to your parents about it and let them know how it is affecting you.

Lastly, I am going to give you a link
Reasons to Live. This link has a list of reasons people have to keep going on. This might help you see all the reasons you have to live. It might help to make a list of your own as well. To really see that there are things to live for. Sometimes the list starts out with generic things like 'the sunshine' and 'rainbows'. However, with time it can grow to be centered around things that specifically apply to you. For example my list now contains 'becoming a psychologist' and 'becoming a mother'. And, with time I am sure the same thing will happen with you.

Please hang in there and if you need anything feel free to pm me.

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Re: The pain is just to much - February 11th 2010, 02:51 AM

What will ending it all solve. It would just hurt other people in the process
   
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Re: The pain is just to much - February 11th 2010, 02:53 AM

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What will ending it all solve. It would just hurt other people in the process
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Re: The pain is just to much - February 13th 2010, 07:04 PM

If you don't understand why you are like this then let us try to help you. Talk to us. But don't end your life because your life is a gift and those who disturb you shouldn't make you want to lose your life.
   
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