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Exclamation ill never live my dreem good by - April 9th 2010, 02:25 AM

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I try and try and try and scru every thang upand ill I wunt is to be a father but I will just scru it up like every thang ells and I probly can't evin find some one tat will put up with me so I'm just taking the easy way out its not worth the pain eny more I just ceep rellizing that I'm never going to get eny thang I wut I'm dun geting hurt
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Re: ill never live my dreem good by - April 9th 2010, 02:35 AM

I used to always feel lonely and let down a lot, close to how you feel right now. Every day seemed like hurt. In fact I still long to have a girl to love by my side, just like you do. But several of my other dreams have come true since then. I'm sure the same will happen to you soon enough.
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Re: ill never live my dreem good by - April 9th 2010, 04:12 PM

Hey there DK,

I'm sorry to hear how bad you are feeling right now. It seems as though you are really struggling which must not be very pleasant for you. I do think that it's wonderful that you're letting us know how you're feeling though! It's very brave and good of you to come and ask for help or support. It can really help to vent how you're feeling, whether it's writing it down or telling someone else how you feel.
I'm sure that you don't mess everything up, DK. It can be hard to find a relationship, I'm sure that the majority of people do have a difficulty with that at some point - but don't give up! In regards to other things aswell, DK, it is possible to get other things that you want, it's possible to achieve what you want. You are capable of achieving things. If you need support or help, there's no shame in asking.

Take care.
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Re: ill never live my dreem good by - April 9th 2010, 08:23 PM

To be a father takes time, energy, money, and is has a lot to do with mental stability. Take some time for you to get on some anti-depressents, speak to a councellor, try to better yourself so you can give the child you want the best father you can be.

I was trying to have a baby starting at 15 years old. I wasnt living on my own or anything. I did get pregnant, many times and miscarried everyone of them. The pain from losing my babies was much worse then the pain of wanting one. You're 18 years old, you have a lot of time left to be the family man. Better yourself and you will better your life.
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Re: ill never live my dreem good by - April 10th 2010, 02:00 AM

I agree with Flying True. While it will take a while to get a girl. Anything you want you can get. I was a nobody from a small town now I'm a somebody at Warner Brothers. The future is what we make of it. You can be anything you want to be and life will throw you opportunities, just need to be ready for them.

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Re: ill never live my dreem good by - April 10th 2010, 04:00 AM

Hi DK,
I'm so sorry that you're feeling like this. Everyone goes through bad times and has doubts about where things are going in their life. Things get hard for everyone, but you can't just give up, you have to strive for your dreams for them to happen and for you to get there! You have a chance to get to your dreams if you strive for them and don't give up. But if you were to end your life you wouldn't have the chance at all to pursue what you really want.
I know that things will get better for you if you just give them a chance. Don't give up entirely. You never know what amazing thing might happen. Bad things do happen, but you have to get through those bad times to get to the good ones.
Take care and be strong.

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Re: ill never live my dreem good by - April 10th 2010, 09:43 AM

i meen thats only part of it thars a girl that i am in love with we were together for 2 1/2 years and ingaged for 1 year and she left me but wen i wus with her i had every thang i wunted and more and lost it all and i still have dreems of having a famly with her i havint talked to her in abaut a year naw
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Re: ill never live my dreem good by - April 10th 2010, 11:04 PM

Didn't you have a post about this earlier in the year ? I thought you spoke to her cause I remember replying to your thread about it. So do you think she will be willing to talk to you ?

I came here to help out, so if you wanna talk or just need someone to bounce ideas or issues off of or something else then send me a message and I will reply as soon as I can.
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