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Relationships - April 15th 2010, 08:22 AM

I've never had a girlfriend and it's always meant a lot to me even at a young age. I've been rejectees time after time and I just kept hoping. But two years ago I was rejected again and I haven't felt for another since.
Just recently I lost my best friend. She and I are were so close and it fell apart over a dumb argument. I lost her. I feel like I can't love again, that I can't trust anyone again.
I've been so angry lately I yell, break things and I don't know why. Rage seems to consume me and I don't know what to do with it. I've lost anyone I could talk to or trust.
I hate being so angry. I hate not having someone special. I hate how I can't get my best friend back.
I'm not suicidal. I'm just in a bad spot and have no one to help me. I've already given up. I just want to stop being so angry and depressed all the time.
I used to write poetry all the time. For the girls I liked...they were always ignored or thrown in my face. Even my best friend was the same. She was a nice good person so I'm not sure. But I haven't written anything since December. I'm so lost and angry.

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Re: Relationships - April 18th 2010, 08:37 PM

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I've never had a girlfriend and it's always meant a lot to me even at a young age. I've been rejectees time after time and I just kept hoping. But two years ago I was rejected again and I haven't felt for another since.
Just recently I lost my best friend. She and I are were so close and it fell apart over a dumb argument. I lost her. I feel like I can't love again, that I can't trust anyone again.
I've been so angry lately I yell, break things and I don't know why. Rage seems to consume me and I don't know what to do with it. I've lost anyone I could talk to or trust.
I hate being so angry. I hate not having someone special. I hate how I can't get my best friend back.
I'm not suicidal. I'm just in a bad spot and have no one to help me. I've already given up. I just want to stop being so angry and depressed all the time.
I used to write poetry all the time. For the girls I liked...they were always ignored or thrown in my face. Even my best friend was the same. She was a nice good person so I'm not sure. But I haven't written anything since December. I'm so lost and angry.
Poetry is not the way to a girl's heart. It may appear sweet in movies or whatever, but that's not really how the world works these days. I never had a girlfriend until I was 18 and I managed to snag two ridiculously hot ones, a few others peeping up every now and then to see if I've ended my relationships yet. It's all about how you carry yourself and also comes down how to how you look. Also, if you've got a real heading in life, because girls like someone who knows what the heck they're doing rather than living aimlessly without a clue.

You go and get your best friend back and stop mourning over it. You make amends, you tell a little white lie, you do whatever it takes to get her back in your life and bite the big one. The last thing you need to do is worry about one more thing and arguments are stupid things to lose friendships over. A sizable breach of trust would be a more legitimate reason to end a friendship.

And the last thing you should do is give up. If you give up, there's no way you're ever going to find out if something will happen for you because you've already decided the fate of it. I don't know what you look like, but if you're overweight, pimple-faced, or lack style, change it up. Go running, lift some weights, start using a face wash, and gel up your hair or buy some new clothing. Little changes sometimes make all the difference and big ones make them more visually potent. Once you re-engineer your whole attitude of this whole situation, I think you'll start to see results. Do not ever play the nice guy role, I tell you! That will automatically set you into the friend zone. Only let the nice side of you be an attribute of you. Do not be afraid to tease a girl jokingly, but you do not absolutely volunteer to be their biotch (which you've hopefully already figured out).

When you start trusting yourself with things in your life when your confidence is restored, you'll start trusting other people.

Good luck.
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Re: Relationships - April 18th 2010, 09:43 PM

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I've never had a girlfriend and it's always meant a lot to me even at a young age. I've been rejectees time after time and I just kept hoping. But two years ago I was rejected again and I haven't felt for another since.
Just recently I lost my best friend. She and I are were so close and it fell apart over a dumb argument. I lost her. I feel like I can't love again, that I can't trust anyone again.
I've been so angry lately I yell, break things and I don't know why. Rage seems to consume me and I don't know what to do with it. I've lost anyone I could talk to or trust.
I hate being so angry. I hate not having someone special. I hate how I can't get my best friend back.
I'm not suicidal. I'm just in a bad spot and have no one to help me. I've already given up. I just want to stop being so angry and depressed all the time.
I feel the same way a lot. I still don't have a girlfriend. But I'm still trying. Don't give up, soon enough you will find what you are looking for (and hopefully I will too).
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