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Depression and Suicide If you or a loved one is feeling depressed or suicidal, you are not alone. Talk with other users about your feelings here.

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Exclamation must - April 17th 2010, 10:19 PM

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I have to go..I cant do this I have to die.


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"It gives me hope. I love you so much. You give me a reason to breathe. Its something for me to not kill myself for" >>> means so much :')

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Re: must - April 18th 2010, 12:37 AM

oh hunny, it can get better. whatever is making you feel this bad right now, it won't last forever. I don't know your situation, but there are plenty of reasons to keep on living. I know how hard it is, but just wait another day at least. I assure you, you won't feel this way forever.
Is there anything in particular that has made you feel so bad tonight?
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Re: must - April 18th 2010, 09:20 AM

No you don't. There are other options. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, remember? Instead of focussing on the reasons you want to die, try and think of the reasons you have to live - all the people who love you, all the things you want to do but haven't yet, all your dreams and hopes.

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Re: must - April 19th 2010, 12:26 PM

yeah loads of things. my dreams and hopes arent enough to live for...


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Re: must - April 21st 2010, 08:15 AM

Do you want to talk about what happened to make you feel this way?
And what makes you think your hopes and dreams aren't enough?


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Re: must - April 21st 2010, 10:24 AM

Hey there Georgia-Louise,

I'm so sorry to hear that you're feeling so terrible right now, that's not nice to hear and I'm sorry that you're suffering.

You don't have to die, Georgia-Louise, at least not any time soon. You deserve to live a long and happy life and it is possible that you can do that, even if it may not necessarily feel that way right now. It is difficult to deal with feelings of depression and I understand that, but you can get through this. Try and talk to someone about why you're feeling this way - maybe some of your problems are completely resolvable, maybe some will be able to improve through time. Talking to someone can be very helpful and it can keep you safe, which is very important if you are suicidal. You are not alone in this.

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Re: must - April 21st 2010, 12:53 PM

Hey there,

You don't need to die, you need to live!
This life has been given to you to live, not to lose.
Hang in there, find things to live for, even just the little things. Seeing the sunshine again; or seeing the moonlight again, swimming in water again, smiling again, eating your favourite food again. I see you like Paramore (great band, I agree ), you can live to hear their next album, see the next album artwork. Something like that.

And take it day by day, every day you live is a blessing.

Good luck with this situation,
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Re: must - April 22nd 2010, 09:50 AM

Thank you.
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Do you want to talk about what happened to make you feel this way?
And what makes you think your hopes and dreams aren't enough?
My hopes and dreams aren't enough because they used to be the reason I live, but they don't suffice anymore. I'm not going to get my dreams because of my head being so messed up.
i have loads going on that has caused this. The main things are family issues with my mum and a huge frendship crisis that happened last week.
My mum emotionally and psychologically abuses me... she puts me through hell, and I have one very special friend who can and has helped me loads with everything, but one of the things my mum has done is stop me from seeing that mate. She has a very twisted view of her and hates her guts. I miss my mate like mad, and its killing me not seeing her!

Konstantine; I don't want to be safe..I don't want to go through this pain anymore. I have spoken to lots of people over the years about all this and more and they haven't really done anything. People keep telling me that they think I'm depressed which I agree with but the doctors and most counsellors disagree. the only thing they do is give me counselling..thats it. I see a CPN weekly now(missed my appointment this week tho!) but all that we do in the sessions is that I offload to her and she tells me that even though im cutting again im 'coping well with things' and im 'stronger than I think'. thats it..nothing else.

Amy; i have truly given up finding things to live for, becuase I always get hurt and things always get me down, its like I'm not meant to be happy.

I can't swim because of my Sh scars and Im starving myself so food is nothing to live for.

urgh...Im just a mess..and Im expected to do well in my A leves with all this?!!! YEAH RIGHT!!!!


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Re: must - April 23rd 2010, 12:58 PM

That's a tough situation you're going through at the moment. It really is like a patch of hell. But remember, it's just a patch, and things will get better. It might take weeks, it might take months, it might take years. But, if you hang in there long enough, you'll get to where you need to be and you'll see improvements. If you quit now, you'll never know what could have been, you'll be lifeless, dead, permanently. Do you REALLY want that?

There's always something to live for.
With that situation about your mum stopping you from seeing that friend of yours, have you spoken to your mum and explained just how much you NEED that friend? Because it really seems as though you do need them and it's just not fair that they have been taken from you. You shouldn't have to deal with that :/

I really am sorry, but please, keep living
I'm sure you're a great person, even if you don't believe it right now, and you've got your whole life ahead of you, starting from right NOW.
If you ever need someone to talk to, my PM is always open
I hope I've helped, I'm sorry if I've messed up and only made things worse.

Take care, okay?
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Re: must - April 23rd 2010, 01:04 PM

Thank you. How could you make things worse?!
I have told my mum, repeatedly about my friend, but she is so twisted.
thanks again.. xxxx i may pm you


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Re: must - April 24th 2010, 05:42 PM

I'm glad to be a help to you, and PM is ALWAYS open, I'll listen any time You deserve to be heard.

It's a shame that your mum just doesn't understand. Is there any way of seeing your friend without your mums knowledge?

I know that's sneaky, but, sometimes it has to be done.

Best of luck,
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Re: must - April 26th 2010, 09:58 AM

there used to be, with my boyfriend taking me to see her, but that puts us all in difficult positions and means I can't see her completly on my own.
thanks xxxx


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