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I Hate Him - May 1st 2010, 02:53 PM

I have realised just recently that I cannot live with my dad... I hate him. He's verbally abuses me and physically to. I have to constantly lie to him about everything such as friends, school and whatever else....
I fear that if i live another year with him i might kill myself....
Yesterday i was in the car, and i said "Dad...." before finishing my sentence he blurs out shut the fuck up. I am very weak emotionally and i began to cry inside. Then i tell myself that im a weak no good piece of shit..
Its all his fault but i can't do anything about it.
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Re: I Hate Him - May 1st 2010, 03:01 PM

I'm sorry to hear that your Dad is treating you this way, you're right, it isn't your fault and it's unfair of him to do to you.

Is there anyone else in your family you may be able to go to? Or even a friend's house temporarily? It may not hurt to see if there is anyone around who can help you get out of your Dad's house. Your Dad may get upset, but it seems that no matter what you do, he's going to be upset. It'll be better for you to be out of his grasp and on a road to handling what you've been through.
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Re: I Hate Him - May 1st 2010, 11:19 PM

Hey there,

I am so so sorry that you are in this situation. That's really rough, I can't imagine how much it must hurt every day to hear your dad say things like that. I Know that we can't really "save" you, but I do want you to know how much we care, and that we are here for whatever you need, alright?

You're 15 right? That means you only have three more years until you get to legally leave! I know that seems like a long time but think of all you've accomplished so far, I know you can make it to there.

Who else do you trust in your life? Family member, counselor, teacher? Try and find someone you can talk to about this, and please remember that you never ever deserve to be hit, hurt, or insulted.

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