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not even my dreams are happy. - July 14th 2010, 10:05 PM

my dreams used to be my escape from my unhappiness.
but lately ive been having nightmares about problems in the past,
which i still believe happened bacause of me.
i just feel so horrible.
like im worthless,
and dont even deserve to live.
ive been told many times that im a disgrace to god,
and shouldnt be alive.
i wonder if they were right...
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Re: not even my dreams are happy. - July 15th 2010, 01:49 AM

You are not a disgrace to God. If you wonder if God has any emotion to you its this : He Loves you.

Well, depending on those problems that occurred, whatever happened has happened, if they were not because of you then they weren't. If you could have done something, then now you cannot do anything about it. But accept that what happened has happened so now you need to resolve the matter.

If you don't mind me asking, what happened that is making you feel this way ??


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Re: not even my dreams are happy. - July 15th 2010, 02:01 AM

ive been being told by people, who i thought were my friends, tht im the reason for thier lives being messed up. i know its their faut for their lives being the way they are, but sometimes i wonder if im really as much of a problem as they say i am. =[
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Re: not even my dreams are happy. - July 15th 2010, 04:22 AM

Hey there Becca,

Firstly I want to say that you are in no way responsible for other peoples lives. Every single individual is responsible for the way they handle any situation and any obstacle that is thrown their way. However, it is hard for people to take responsibility for their own mistakes so they want to blame other people. Don't take that blame on. You are not to blame I promise.

As for your dreams; I know how hard it can be to have them turn into nightmares but with time the good dreams will come.

Do you like to read? If so you should really consider picking up some good books. I know that reading is a great way for me to get some peace. When I am able to escape into the world of make believe I feel at peace. It is like the story becomes my 'dream'. Even if you don't read maybe you could give it a try?

Lastly, I promise you are not a disgrace to god. You know how many times I have done things that made me feel like a disgrace? A lot and I know with all my heart that god still loves me and views me as worthy. As weird as this sounds I can feel him speaking to me and telling me that I am strong and worth while and that he will never give up on you. GOD would never be disgraced by one of his 'children'. Don't let anyone or anything make you feel differently.

Please hang in there and if you need anything feel free to pm me.

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Re: not even my dreams are happy. - July 22nd 2010, 05:48 AM

Hey there Becca, how is everything going now ?


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