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Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 18th 2010, 02:17 AM

life is just unbearable to me now.Ill i need i someone that can totally identify with me. I just want to end my stupid life because i feel out of place i dont want to be here anymore .



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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 18th 2010, 02:27 AM

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What's been going on that's making you feel this way. I'm sure lots of people are going through similar situations and would be happy to help. It also may make you feel better if you let things out rather then keeping them bottled inside. I'm willing to listen and do my best to help, that's what I'm here for! Don't hesitate to PM me if you'd rather do that.
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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 18th 2010, 06:05 AM

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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 18th 2010, 07:18 AM

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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 18th 2010, 09:43 AM

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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 18th 2010, 04:05 PM

feel free to pm because i dont no whether u've seen my thread but im having a reli crap time at the moment too so i totally understand
   
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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 18th 2010, 04:40 PM

Hi there. Trust me, I understand that things seem really hard right now...but just hang on! Try to tell someone (friend, family member, teacher, counselor, etc.) how you feel. It can really help. If you want to talk, feel free to send me a PM.


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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 19th 2010, 12:15 AM

thanks guys for your responses



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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 19th 2010, 12:16 AM

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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 19th 2010, 12:21 AM

I want to get help, but i dont really want to talk to anybody on the phone is there any other way? by email or chat rooms or anything?



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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 19th 2010, 12:26 AM

In terms of professional help, phone lines are the most common. You could talk to your doctor though. Another thing to consider is talking with a friend or relative and asking THEM to help you get help (if that makes any sense).


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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 19th 2010, 12:33 AM

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In terms of professional help, phone lines are the most common. You could talk to your doctor though. Another thing to consider is talking with a friend or relative and asking THEM to help you get help (if that makes any sense).
i told my cousin and he wants me to go to a church and just talk to somebody there and thats something i want to do, but i dont know if they be able to help me.



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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 19th 2010, 12:38 AM

If you are religious, that could be very helpful.


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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 19th 2010, 12:40 AM

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The usual method for contacting professional help is by phone or by visiting a doctor or therapist. It can be an extremely scary step, but one that has really helped a lot of people greatly. Talking to friends, family or people you trust can help a great deal too. You aren't alone and things can honestly get better.

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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 19th 2010, 12:58 AM

It really scares me to go to a therapist. Firstly because i dont know if i would be able to open up to them. And i dont really want my family to find out about my depression they wont understand.



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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 19th 2010, 01:36 AM

I know it may seem scary about going to a therapist, but it's definately worth the try! Sometimes you may not click with the first person you talk with, but that's okay! Lots of people take time before they find the right person they can open up to. I felt the same way about my family before they found out. It turns out they are just worried about me and want to know what they can do to help. Even if they don't understand, atleast they could be there for you when you're upset.


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Re: Im just a mess i need someone to talk to i cant handle it aymore - July 19th 2010, 07:35 AM

i know you've been through a lot. just so you know, i'd love to talk to you too

and the therapist will be able to help more than you think. Sometimes talking to the family about this might seem awkward, but the truth is that they will also do their best to help you..

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