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No hope. - November 23rd 2010, 09:10 AM

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What if there's nothing you can do? What if your life has no hope left? What if there's no way you can change your situation?

No one can take away my past. No one can cure my dad of cancer. No one can make our financial problems go away. No one can ease the struggle of my day-to-day life. No one can make anything about my life any better, even if they tried.

Not me. Not my parents. Not my friends (assuming I had friends). Not a doctor. Not a psychologist.

There is no easy way to deal with my life. There isn't an easy answer. A quick fix... Or any fix. I'm miserable and there's not a thing that can be done. It is what it is. And that's it.

So, what if there's nothing that can be done to help? What am I supposed to do? How am I supposed to handle my depression when there is no way to change my circumstances?

I just want everything to end. I can't deal with this.


How far do I have to go to make you understand?
I wanna make this work so much it hurts...
But I just can't keep on giving, go on living with the way things are.
So I'm gonna walk away, and it's up to you to say how far...
   
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Re: No hope. - November 23rd 2010, 10:42 AM

Okay , I understand that you are having a hard time. But people who are always down find it harder to get up ... err yeah
What I mean is you need to pick yourself up while it is easier to , see what I mean?
You have friends All of us at Teenhelp who are here to HELp you.
I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad , if you wanna talk , Jut PM me.

Financial problems will eventually be sorted , just wait til the ressesion is over.
In the meantime can you get a part time job? Mow lawns , help neighbours or other family?
TBH honest there is no easy awnser , but it CAN get better.

Just Pm me me if you still need to talk about ANYTHING




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Re: No hope. - November 23rd 2010, 06:20 PM

Hey there,

I'm so sorry that you're having to deal with all of this, it sounds awful. Although there may be nothing that can fix any of it, there are things that can be done to help. Someone once told me that you can only recieve help if you're willing to take the help that's out in the world waiting to be grabbed.

I know it seems like things are hopeless right now, but honestly, they're not. With financial problems, you could try to get a job, or you could maybe offer a better way to deal with the money that's in your family right now.

As hard as it is right now, your negative outlook on this situation isn't going to help it either. It's just going to put more negative energy towards the situation. I understand how you can be so upset with the circumstances that you're living with, but sometimes you just need to hold on and hope for the best.

I hope that I was at least a tiny bit of help to you. If you would lilke to talk more, please feel free to send me a private message whenever you want to.

Please take care of yourself and be safe.

- Kaylaaa.


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I will walk with you, so you're never alone.
   
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