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My best friend. - November 23rd 2010, 11:51 PM

She's planning on killing herself on Saturday.
I've talked. I've reasoned. I've been there for her.
She's heartbroken over her boyfriend that broke up with her last week. I've tried telling her that's there are other fish in the sea, but she won't hear it...
I'm so scared. What do I do?
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Re: My best friend. - November 24th 2010, 12:18 AM

Hey there,

If you friend is going to harm herself you need to let someone know. I know you probably don't want to do that but she needs help. She might get mad at you and your friendship might falter but wouldn't you much rather that that lose her because she killed herself? Sometimes when people are suicidal they cannot be reasoned with and when that is the case other people need to step in and take charge. It sounds like your friend has gotten to that point and is past being reasoned with. Reach out to someone so that she will, hopefully, get the help she deserves.

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Re: My best friend. - November 24th 2010, 12:22 AM

Honey I know its scarey We are all here for you.
This is a secret that you CANNOT keep. It doesnt matter if you promised you wouldnt. This isnt something that you can keep. Ive been there done that and I will NEVER forgive myself for not telling. Its something that will forever haunt you.
Do you have a supportive parent?? Does she?? Could you go to one of them?? Or maybe a school counsellor or something. A teacher maybe.
Anyone that will listen and can help you both. Just please.... I know it feels so hard to brake their trust, but this is something that she NEEDS you to do for her. She is hurting. And that ok. But its not ok for her to kill herself over a boy.
PM me ok?? I can help.
You just need to tell someone who can look after your friend a bit more than you can.
She is incredily lucky to have you!!! dont ever forget that <3
At the moment she just needs an adult.
Please come to me if you want..... I can talk..
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Re: My best friend. - November 24th 2010, 12:45 AM

I'm going to tell my mom. I have no idea what will happen... But I feel like it's the best thing I can do right now.
Thank you guys... I just wish there was something I could say or do to make her realize that this isn't the end of the world.
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Re: My best friend. - November 24th 2010, 10:03 AM

Thats increadibly brave!!!! I am so proud of you!!! Dont forget Im always here.
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Re: My best friend. - November 24th 2010, 10:28 AM

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I'm going to tell my mom. I have no idea what will happen... But I feel like it's the best thing I can do right now.
Thank you guys... I just wish there was something I could say or do to make her realize that this isn't the end of the world.
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