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i wish i just had one really good friend - December 19th 2010, 01:29 AM

so i could talk to. I feel so lonely.I dont ask for a whole bunch of friends all i ask for is just one friend, nothing more.



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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 19th 2010, 05:33 AM

I have felt like that before, you are not alone. Its really hard for me to make friends and some of my friends have a TON of friends. I am always telling them that they do not know how lucky they are to have so many. I wish that could be me. But you know, there is a good friend out there for everyone=) You have friends on here too of course and we are always around to talk, including me if you ever need it=) I know how you feel though.


   
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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 19th 2010, 07:06 AM

You can talk to me if you'd like! I'm always up for a talk, and I to, know how harsh it can be. But you can be my friend, and I be yours
   
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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 19th 2010, 07:30 AM

Same as the girl above me said=)


   
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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 22nd 2010, 01:18 AM

Thankyou guys for your words



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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 22nd 2010, 01:43 AM

I know it's already been said, but no one deserves to feel lonely so I'll just repeat it:
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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 22nd 2010, 04:06 AM

have you tried findin friends? Difficult huh but jus b patient ur time will come
   
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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 22nd 2010, 06:58 PM

Yeah, i used to have one of those too. Then college started for her and she hasn't seen me since. This was something like 8 weeks ago.
She has new friends and wants nothing to do with me. She's changed really badly. Died her hair. Cold. She isn't warm to me anymore and i'm scared to say anything to her.
God i miss her too much to comprehend.
As people keep telling me, friends come and go, and you will find someone. I don't know when but you will.
I just wish i could have mine back.


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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 23rd 2010, 01:12 AM

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have you tried findin friends? Difficult huh but jus b patient ur time will come
yeah, but the people who so called my friends were never true friends, i want to meet real friends people who care about friendship that are there with u when u need them than can listen to you and that really care, ive never met anyone like that. Thats why i dont trust people anymore.



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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 23rd 2010, 01:16 AM

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I know it's already been said, but no one deserves to feel lonely so I'll just repeat it:
My name's Jack, it's nice to meet you. Feel free to message me if you'd ever like to talk (seriously or just chit chat)
Hi Jack is nice to meet you too.Thanks for replying and for your words.



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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 23rd 2010, 02:56 AM

I agree with this thread entirely. Like in all of the TV shows, one really good friend.
I honestly don't think the net is the best place, because there are things you see that you can't do digitally.

Like I saw moving clouds, but my camera jacked it up. You just have to see it. You know?


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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 23rd 2010, 03:26 AM

I agree..But there is someone out there for everyone. I used to think that finding a really true best friend would never happen. I had a lot of "best friends" growing up that were disasters. I don't know why I was even friends with them. They were maluputive and they treated me very badly. I lost hope. BUT, in 6th grade I met someone unlike any other and she is now my very best friend in the entire world. She is great. We have only fought once and even that wasn't a big fight at all. Remember this, the best friends you will ever have come along at the most random time and usually these people are people you never thought in a million years that you'd be friends with.


   
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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 23rd 2010, 03:40 AM

I know that the internet isn't quite the same as in person when it comes to friendship, but in her case she's looking for someone who just has nothing but good intentions and who really values the friendship. That is one thing you can find online. Even if it's not a physical interaction, people on the interwebs are people nonetheless and friendship between them is the same friendship found between someone sitting next to them.

That being said, you will find people in your school or just around you that will be smarter than all the other jerks and will value you as you should be. I promise this


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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 23rd 2010, 04:51 AM

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I know that the internet isn't quite the same as in person when it comes to friendship, but in her case she's looking for someone who just has nothing but good intentions and who really values the friendship. That is one thing you can find online. Even if it's not a physical interaction, people on the interwebs are people nonetheless and friendship between them is the same friendship found between someone sitting next to them.

That being said, you will find people in your school or just around you that will be smarter than all the other jerks and will value you as you should be. I promise this
First Part - True; but it isn't the same.
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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 23rd 2010, 05:05 AM

I'm not saying that friendship via internet is the same, I'm just saying that you can find people who value you (as proven by this very thread). Sure it may be someone you will probably never meet, but that doesn't change the fact that there is another person sitting in front of their computer, conveying these thoughts and feeling these feelings. Is it the same? No. Can people value one another over the internet? Definitely. I've met some of the nicest, smartest, and friendliest people I've ever known off of this site.

And I'm not saying this to demean you for your age, but you really do end up finding people similar to yourself (whether it be in High School or College) and people really do grow out of being immature and being (as) hurtful.


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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 24th 2010, 02:59 PM

I know just how that feels. Thats part of the reason why I joined here, to talk to people who go through the same things as i do. Just keep talking to people on here and im sure you'll feel less lonely Oh, and talk to me at any time


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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 24th 2010, 03:09 PM

I know how you feel! I don't have any friends I can hang out day to day. All my friends live hours away from me and I see them every few months, if that.
I bet you just want to find a friend that will always be there when you need them. The kind of friend you can phone at 3:00 in the morning just to talk when you're feeling down.
I'm that friend for someone else, I just wish they could be the same for me too.

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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 24th 2010, 04:01 PM

aww... I know that feeling. You can always talk to me if you want!
Something that I've done, is, gone to other people who don't seem to have many friends. I talk to them, introduce myself, and try to have a nice conversation. It's a win-win situation: both us us meets someone and has a new friend. Maybe that's something you'd be interested in. It's sort of awkward at first, but you get used to it after a while.

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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 25th 2010, 01:44 AM

Thankyou to all of u for everything. Merry Christmas to all.



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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 25th 2010, 11:25 AM

Merry Christmas to you too=)


   
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Re: i wish i just had one really good friend - December 25th 2010, 12:13 PM

Find someone else who feels lonely and be their friend. Many people are far more lonely than they appear, and there are always people who need friends.

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