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Need Help. - December 20th 2010, 02:57 AM

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Psychopaths.

What ar ethe signs of a psychopath.
The behavioural patterns to know when someone is a psychopath.

I need to know.
If this person is a psychopath, how do get out of the relationship.

They are abusive as it is.
Someone mentioned they could be psychopathic.
I don;t understand what psychopathic is.

I've become depressed after two years no depression, no cutting.
I;ve just overcome my ED, my suicidal thoughts.
Then he starts abusing me.

I cut again the other day, Luckily not very serious.
But man, do I feel the urge.
I havent eaten for three days (except a timtam this morning), because of the stress, not by choice.
I have bronchitis, so I can't sleep.

Depression. Starvation. Sleeplessness. Anxiety. Self Harm. Abuse.

Those words are eating at me.

I need to get him help.
In order to help myself.

If he wants to hurt me so bad. Why shouldn't I just help him with it.


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Re: Need Help. - December 20th 2010, 04:00 AM

I think if he is a danger to you and causing you to feel this way, you should go to law enforcement.
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Re: Need Help. - December 20th 2010, 04:09 AM

I have been to the police once before.
I didn't find them to be very helpful at all.
Fair enough they placed a DVO against him.
But that doesnt legallly stop him from seeing me.

They didnt provide me with on going counselling like they are suppose to,
sent me to a womens shelter, where druggos that threatened me lived.
So i was forced to leave there. And go back to my partner just to have a place to stay and food to eat.
   
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Re: Need Help. - December 20th 2010, 04:34 AM

What country do you live in? Have you tried contacting another police department like one in a neighboring county/jurisdiction? Obviously what you are dealing with here is blatantly unacceptable.
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Re: Need Help. - December 20th 2010, 04:45 AM

I dont mean to be rude, but are you able to help me with defining what a psychopath is?

I know that even though we may be happy with no issues for weeks on end, but then he loses it. doesnt make it okay.

But i still love him, and I hate that people try and MAKE me leave him.
Of course i know that I NEED to leave him to be safe
but when he is nice, he is amazing.
and then he becomes a monster.
   
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Re: Need Help. - December 20th 2010, 04:54 AM

Take him to a therapist see what the therapist says why hes a monster one minute then nice the next see what she says. Or if you cant drag him to a therapist you go to a therapist and tell her what hes doign and how he acts and she can probablly tell you why he does it and how to get out of the relationship if needed to and other things. This would really help if you went to a therapsit because if somethigns wrong with him they might prescribe meds to him which could make his mood swings decerease and maybe not be the way he is now or able to control it better.
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Re: Need Help. - December 20th 2010, 05:01 AM

I mean,
to be completely honest.
I HATE WHAT HE IS DOING.
But I love him so much.
that if there was a way of FIXING things, where he wont be lik ethis naymore.

I would so much rather do that. because regardless of the shit he has done to me.
I know he loves me.


Umm, he's been to the doctors recently after the last incident.
They took a blood test.

?? Appranently via bloodtest, they can see if he has bi polar or something.
How is that possible?
he gets the result sback ina few days.

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Re: Need Help. - December 20th 2010, 09:33 PM

Im not sure how thats possible but he can take like a mental health test given by a therapist they wanted me to take one of those i never did but they do have that if yo uask im sure.

There is a way to fix these things by going to a therapist and maybe getting some medicine if he needs them or doing couple counsling working on what you need to do when he gets liek this and stuff.

Ask your docotr how the blodd test shows I have heard if your thyroid is low some doctors adomatically think your bipolor. your welcome good luck. if you wan tot tell me the results jsut pm me i hope it all works out weell.
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Re: Need Help. - December 21st 2010, 04:29 AM

Even though it isn't what you want to hear, what you are going through is the common phenomena known as the abusive relationship. Even though you know he is hurting you, you feel the need to stand by him because you have feelings for him, and your family members and friends are trying to pull you away from him because they fear for your safety. So as Lauri said I think it would be a good idea to visit a therapist who specializes in anger and mental health issues.
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Re: Need Help. - December 21st 2010, 07:27 PM

Im afraid i cant help you with letting you know what I Psychopath is, but what i DO know, is that its not the same thing as someone with Psychosis. They are 2 seperate things. I know people can get them confused, so just thought id mention it


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Re: Need Help. - December 23rd 2010, 03:27 AM

Just to clear things up as well, if YOU go to a therapist, they cannot diagnose HIM or tell you why he's doing it, since they haven't spoken to him. Nor can they prescribe meds for him.
But, I think you should try to get out. I know you might love him. And even though he can be amazing to you, he's hurting you. No one ever deserves that.



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Re: Need Help. - December 23rd 2010, 04:25 AM

Yup thats what I meant they can only prescribe meds if the therapist sees him. I think the therapist can give her a idea of what shes dealing with if she goes in with out her husband but just not the whole details. So best to jsut try to get him to go to a therapist with you or something. Best of luck.
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