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Unhappy should i leave? - May 11th 2011, 06:23 PM

im really sad. i just got out of a super abusive relationship and i have to see him every day at school until the end of next year when we graduate. not a lot of people believe me, and i have severe depression. this is terrible and i want to die or at least switch schools. my friends dont want me to leave, but i cant be around him...
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Re: should i leave? - May 11th 2011, 06:40 PM

i can relate in a way its good to talk about it with someone u trust because they can offer support and stability so u can stand on your own... its important i think to remember that ther is always someone out ther that admires and thinks highly of you even if you arent aware of it im not saying go around talking about it but maby if you have any personal freinds mention your feelings to them about this that way if he upsets u at any time they might be more likely to notice your upset and help....i have never been physicaly abused nor have i been verbaly abused to a point that i might consider it bad but i do beleive you r going thru allot and i hope i helped a little
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Re: should i leave? - May 11th 2011, 06:51 PM

Aw im sorry about this; atleast you managed to get out of it!

This im sure must seem so hard, but all i can say, is atleast try and get through it without moving schools, your friends must care about you if they don't want you to go.
They im sure can help you. If you are in the same classes, just ignore him, don't talk to him, don't look at him. If your not in the same classes, but just see each other around school, when you walk past him, get out your phone, talk to your friends- focus on other things.
I can't even imagine how hard this could be, just try your best to avoid him.
If you really can't take it, moving schools would be an idea, although if its only til the end of next year, maybe you really could hack it with your friends support?
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Re: should i leave? - May 12th 2011, 01:28 AM

I think should do whats best for you and you happinesws and saftiness.
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Re: should i leave? - May 15th 2011, 08:45 PM

thanks guys I'm just working on it, it's hard because a log of my friends are friends with him and it makes me mad to see even the ones who know what he did to me be nice to him.
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Re: should i leave? - May 18th 2011, 12:44 AM

I think a good idea to do would be to talk to your school administrators, tell them what happened, and have a no contact order set in place. This way he would not be allowed to interact with you, and if he violates it he would face severe repercussions.
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