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Causing so much pain - June 17th 2011, 05:53 PM

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I'm so tired of being alive. Everything I do is never right.
For example, we lost our soccer game in the state tournament. I got a ticket today for speeding. I cut when I know I shouldn't. I am causing my family soo many problems.
If I were to die everything would be better. There would be no more tickets, no more cutting, no more problems for my family. My only problem is that I know that I will never do it. So for the rest of my life I will be causing everyone problems and I just don't know whatI can do to make things better for people. I just want to become a less of a problem to make everyone's life easier. I don't know what I can do anymore.


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Re: Causing so much pain - June 17th 2011, 06:05 PM

I am sorry. I wish I could just give you a hug and make everything better for you. You are not a problem, you have a problem. You are a wonderful person. You didn't create a problem for me. You HELPED me! You calmed me down when I really needed someone. You were there for me and I am here for you. Come talk to me If you ever need to or just want to
   
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Re: Causing so much pain - June 17th 2011, 08:00 PM

There would be problems in your family, Sarah, even if you died; probably worse problems, because they'd have to deal with coming to terms with the fact that you killed yourself.

So you got a ticket? Learn to look at it in a funny sort of way. It helps.

And if you want to quit cutting: Every time you want to cut, or feel trapped, listen to a good song that relaxes you, or reminds you of a happier time; or even listen to music that has to do with what you're going through in life. I've never cut; I was more for driving my nails into my skin while I was crying, and only that when I was extremely upset. But even the little bit I did it made me feel guilty, and after my mom saw the marks on my arms, I knew I had to stop it. So I gave myself a goal, and starting working my way out of my depression one day at a time, because I knew that if my depression went away, so would the beginnings of what would surely have escalated into self harm.

So, my tips to you: Listen to some good music, give yourself a goal and a time-frame in which to achieve it, keep busy, and find someone to talk to about this, whether it be a good friend, a parent/guardian, or a psychologist or physician.

And remember that soccer games are lost by teams, not just by one person.


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1. Do what you want within the bounds of reason, whenever you want to, and regret nothing. 2. If you have an opinion, don't beat around the bush, or there isn't a point in saying it. 3. Don't keep the company of anyone who won't like you and will try to change you.



   
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