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Depression and Suicide If you or a loved one is feeling depressed or suicidal, you are not alone. Talk with other users about your feelings here.

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cut then suicide - July 26th 2011, 09:08 PM

First i cut, then i attempted. i am alive still, but wish i wasn't
   
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Re: cut then suicide - July 26th 2011, 10:19 PM

I'm so sorry you attempted to kill yourself

Do you want to talk about what caused you to do so? You posted, you want help, and I would like to help.

Feel free to PM me. I know that may not sound inviting, but I really do like to help people and get to know them. I need more friends
   
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Re: cut then suicide - July 27th 2011, 02:44 AM

You are alive, for a reason.
You need to live.

Alright, I know this probably will sound like a crummy inspiration speach but I'm going to say it anyway:

I used to have major depression and anxiety issues. Sometimes the emotional pain would
ache so bad that I would just curl up in a tiny ball on the floor in my room and wait for the
pain to weaken. Everyday I would wake up and ask myself "at what point of the day will I break down today?"
One time my friend had said, "You don't seem the same." And I had cried and cried in front of my crush and
everyone else in my science class. It was horrible. Life was horrible. But then it went away.

After what felt like forever, but had only been a couple of months, it passed. It is still there but
only slightly so. It's not near as overwhelming as it used to be. Now, sometimes, I'm truly happy.
In fact, the other day I was dancing in the shower, singing Disney songs...does that explain how happy I was?

Yes, it probably won't all go away. But overtime you will get better, you just have to set your
mind to it. Eventually, you will live happily and depression and sadness
will merely be a shadow. But you have to bring yourself to want that.

First of all do you have any very trustworthy friends or family members you can tell this to?
Both of my best friends have and are going through some of the same things as me and it's always
nice to get comfort within them. Telling someone who you can see, face to face, about your issues
can usually help get some of your steam off.

Also, if you feel like it has become a huge part of your life and is even taking it over then it might be a
good idea to suggest a meeting with a counselor. I know that is the oldest advice in the book but talking
to a theripist/counselor can actually really help. I know mine sure did.

And my last piece of advice is if you ever need to talk to someone about anything and everyone don't think
a second before PMing me. You don't have to if you don't want to, of course. But I will alway be there if you need me.

Now, I understand you may not actually be going through depression, and I'm sorry if I assumed you were
and I assumed wrong. But if you aren't going through depression and you cut for different reasons then
my advice still applies.

I am so sorry if I happened to offend you or hurt your feelings in any way, I tend to not realize when I'm
being rude. Feel free to PM me!

Last but not least please, don't kill yourself. Please.

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Re: cut then suicide - July 27th 2011, 08:44 PM

Hey, I'm sorry your feeling so bad right now.
I know this sounds cheesey and you probably don't wanna here this, but there's a reason you're still alive. You're amazing and your going to do amazing things.
I'm going through the same thing right now. I feel suicidal all the time, and i still cut (although i'm trying to stop).
As Scarlett Rose said, talking to a councler does help. My friends made me a couple times, and afterwards i felt a lot better. It could really help you a lot to talk to someone.
Actually, it doesn't even have to be a councler. Just venting to someone can help.
If you ever need anyone to talk to about anything, PM me. I'm always here to listen.
I hope you feel better!


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Re: cut then suicide - July 27th 2011, 10:03 PM

hey darling;

it gets better. it really does. and if you didn't have any point of being on this planet then your probably would have been successful..but obviously there's a point to you being here so you weren't successful. don't give up. you can do this. <3


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Re: cut then suicide - July 27th 2011, 10:45 PM

Thanks..:/ still having a hard time...
   
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Re: cut then suicide - July 27th 2011, 10:50 PM

No one would care if I died. I'd be less of a burden on everyone I think I should
   
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Re: cut then suicide - August 8th 2011, 08:24 PM

That is NOT true
I'd care if you died, and a lot of other people would to


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Re: cut then suicide - August 8th 2011, 11:19 PM

right now I'm seriously almost there..
   
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