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Exclamation I'm new and I need help. - August 4th 2011, 03:41 AM

I feel agony all the time, nothing can make me smile a real smile. Every night i ask god for help, for him to take my pain away. But in the morning i feel the same. I distanced myself from my family and friends. I cry and it doesnt help. i tired to cut but i could go through with it. I just want my pain to end i have so many problems. i dont know what to do anymore.
   
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Re: I'm new and I need help. - August 4th 2011, 05:32 AM

just remember that things can get better. I understand that you're feeling down, and you feel that there's no hope. but just remember that there's light at the end of the tunnel Stay strong! everything can get better!

please remember that no matter what happens, we're here to support you ! and remember that doing something positive which you like is also a good way to cheer yourself up.


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Re: I'm new and I need help. - August 4th 2011, 06:03 AM

What if I'm to deep into the agony and pain.


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Re: I'm new and I need help. - August 4th 2011, 06:27 AM

then you can still be saved. rather it will be even better later, cause the happiness you get will be even more worth it.

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Re: I'm new and I need help. - August 4th 2011, 07:42 AM

No one is ever beyond help.

Cutting is a road you don't want to go down. Have you looked at the "Alternatives to Self-Harm" thread?

Writing in a journal can be very helpful.
   
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Re: I'm new and I need help. - August 4th 2011, 11:31 AM

Hey there,

I'm sorry your feeling like this, I know it can be difficult to believe sometimes but help is possible. I'd urge you strongly to talk to your family about this. Distancing yourself from them will only isolate you even more, and struggling with this alone is only going to hurt more than you already do. Nobody would want fo you to do this on your own, and you don't have to. Talk to someone, it will help you.

Cutting will not make the pain go away. If anything, it will only make you feel worse. Once you start SH becomes an addiction, and much like any other addiction, it goes from bad to worse. Not only will you be left with horrible, nasty scars, it can be potentially life threatening if you go too deep. I repeat, nobody wants this for you. Instead, I'd recommend you take a look at this: http://www.teenhelp.org/alternatives That is a list of SH alternatives that many people have found work very well. Instead of turning to cutting, use this and find things that work before hand, and save yourself the pain. Not all will work. but keep looking for those that do and don't be put off by the ones that are less affective.

Good luck, and keep your chin up,
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