TeenHelp
Support Forums Today's Posts

Get Advice Connect with TeenHelp Resources
HelpLINK Facebook     Twitter     Tumblr     Instagram    Hotlines    Safety Zone    Alternatives


You are not registered or have not logged in

Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!)

As a guest on TeenHelp you are only able to use some of our site's features. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to:

  • Connect with thousands of teenagers worldwide by actively taking part in our Support Forums and Chat Room.
  • Find others with similar interests in our Social Groups.
  • Express yourself through our Blogs, Picture Albums and User Profiles.
  • And much much more!

Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now!


Depression and Suicide If you or a loved one is feeling depressed or suicidal, you are not alone. Talk with other users about your feelings here.

Closed Thread
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
  (#1 (permalink)) Old
Jeff XD Offline
Member
Welcome me, I'm new!
*
 
Jeff XD's Avatar
 

Posts: 6
Join Date: August 5th 2011

Unhappy Help with my mom! - August 5th 2011, 07:58 AM

Hey im Jeff and im 14 and i have been feeling depressed for a real long time.
truthfully, i believe it all started with my mom. She is cheating on my dad, she is bipolar, depressed, struggles with alcoholism, and pretty much only cares about herself. She constantly drops any plans with me to go out with her friends, and comes back home drunk early in the morning. When any of us stand up to her she makes us feel like it's our fault and threatens to leave us again (which i kind of wish she would) till we like her again. She absolutely hates my sister and i feel so bad. She is extremely embarrassing to me and my sister. She kind of created her own world where she lies to people and pretends she has a baby a nice mansion and isn't married. My mother has done such unbelievable things related to all this it makes me wanna crawl under a rock and never come out. My parents constantly fight, my dad stands up to her but it just makes things worse... she steals his money (like $300! thats a lot for my family). She is worthless scum she does nothing, no job, and my sister and dad do half of the housework! I really wish things could return to the way they were when i was little, she loved and cared about us so much....And now im having anxiety that most people probably get before starting high school... im rather worried because im taking all honors classes and i really need to get involved in clubs and such( which is hard for me cuz im the shyest person alive and im not athletic at any level), and im worried if ill be able to keep up with everything.... so if anyone is reading this, it's just nice to explain it all...i truthfully feel the only reason im not going to like give up on life is because i believe i can create a bright future for me...any advice to help me feel better and for my poor sister.
   
  (#2 (permalink)) Old
ARootlessTree Offline
ಠ_ಠ
Regular TeenHelper
*****
 
ARootlessTree's Avatar
 
Name: Toz
Age: 26
Gender: Male
Location: Virginia

Posts: 462
Join Date: May 28th 2009

Re: Help with my mom! - August 5th 2011, 03:44 PM

Heya Jeff.
It's good to let things out buddy. I can understand why you're feeling these things; it's rough growing up like that. I really think you should get Child Protection Services, or at least your school councilor involved. They will be able to maybe get your mom some help. Please try and stay happy, man. Try and take care of your sister. I'm here if you need a talk, so you can always PM me.
Take care,
Toz


_______________________________________________
   
  (#3 (permalink)) Old
Sanity has left the building
Not a n00b
**
 
zombiehunterforhire's Avatar
 
Name: Alex
Age: 22
Gender: Male
Location: America, Southern California

Posts: 55
Blog Entries: 150
Join Date: July 31st 2011

Re: Help with my mom! - August 5th 2011, 04:08 PM

hey man. i've never been through this before but i think the best you can do is call CPS on her. as bad as it sounds. it's probably the only option you got. hope i helped


"It's okay. Life doesn't have to be perfect. It just has to be lived." Dexter Morgan
   
Closed Thread

Bookmarks

Tags
mom, mom depressed school

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off




All material copyright 1998-2019, TeenHelp.
Terms | Legal | Privacy | Conduct | Complaints

Powered by vBulletin®.
Copyright ©2000-2019, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search engine optimization by vBSEO.
Theme developed in association with vBStyles.