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Unhappy i need a hug... - August 7th 2011, 04:15 AM

Well, My sister who recently becamee estranged visited yesterday, she hates me because I self injure a lot, and I have had sex. She also took the guy I'm in love with away from me..Today she told my stepbrother to ask me if was texting him just to make me cry. They have pushed me to far and I wanna kill myself, I can't take anymore Ans I'm ready to just end it, I have a plan and what I need. I don't want to live in this pain anymore,

So long story short, I need support and advice on how to get past this. Please do not tell me to talk to her because I tried it did not work.
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Re: i need a hug... - August 7th 2011, 04:21 AM

Aww I'm so sorry that they treat you that way, really I am. Just because you have self injury problems too.. I think that the fact that you're 14 and having sex probably worries her more than anything. If she has really strong moral values too then that could be another reason why she "hated" you. I would just avoid her until she's gone, and not let her see what she's doing is hurting you. She's not worth it.
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Re: i need a hug... - August 8th 2011, 08:34 AM

My stepmom made her leave,She isn't worried that I had sex, she is fake and I hope I I don't have to deal with it for a long time...
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Re: i need a hug... - August 8th 2011, 12:38 PM

hey Sonia, it seems like your sister may have slipped away from realizing you are her sister, but siblings stay together no matter what, be ready to welcome her back once she realizes how terrible she has acted. I cant give you a good explanation on why you should do this but it works in all sibling relationships. If one is willing to take the other back as his or her sibling things will get better again hope I helped
   
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Re: i need a hug... - August 8th 2011, 07:29 PM

I am so sorry they are treating you like that!! Its just downright wretched. Just ignor your sister, you dont have to deal with her if you dont want too.
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Re: i need a hug... - August 8th 2011, 07:37 PM

I will when my mom admits her drug problem
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Re: i need a hug... - August 8th 2011, 07:38 PM

And thanks for the hug
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Re: i need a hug... - August 8th 2011, 07:57 PM

I'm sorry that you are feeling so down that you want to end your life. Self injuring is not good but I understand that it helps with all the problems that you are facing. If your sister hates you, and you have tried to figure out why and that doesn't work, then you are going to have to learn to accept the fact that she hates you. When she comes around be nice, don't let her try to push your buttons, etc. Dealing with it will be very hard and I'm not meaning "deal with it" in a rude way, I mean just try to do what you can to get closer to her and to get her to to start loving you again. And deep down she really does love you. She will do things that will make you cry, get angry, etc and you ar ejust going to have to be stronger and not let her get to you. It is hard but I know that you can do it. Just try a little bit longer.
Self injuring is your way to cope with everything that is going on your life. It helps you to relieve all of your stress, angry, etc.
Just because you have sex doesn't give anyone the right to be mad at you or to make you feel bad about your self. It is natural and eveybody has done it, will do it, or has thought about doing it. It isn't bad.
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Re: i need a hug... - August 9th 2011, 01:30 AM

Thanks. I don't live with her. And sex was a one time thing for now.
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