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depressed suicidal hurt and alone - August 13th 2011, 06:20 AM

im done and i dont k ow what to do anymore
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Re: depressed suicidal hurt and alone - August 13th 2011, 07:54 AM

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please tell us more of what you've been through. we want to help you from the roots of your problems.... please remember that all of us are always ready to support you at any time

we love you. stay strong. and tell us more about what made you so sad.


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Re: depressed suicidal hurt and alone - August 13th 2011, 08:19 AM

so i deal with my dad telling me im his biggest mistake i am gay and scared about it and not complely comfortable i get really weird things that i see and hear... and it scares me and im just done dealingwith it. iv turned to cutting pills smoking and drinking to make myself feel better. right now im feeling empty like just a shell. that is it. i feel like if im already dead inside what is the point of still being alive outside?
   
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Re: depressed suicidal hurt and alone - August 13th 2011, 08:31 AM

no there is a point. there's a lot of other girls like you who like girls instead of guys. and there's nothing wrong with that. its just who you are you are who you are and you should be proud of it.

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Re: depressed suicidal hurt and alone - August 14th 2011, 01:59 AM

being gay brings down my whole life.
   
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Re: depressed suicidal hurt and alone - August 14th 2011, 03:21 AM

It always gets better, I have lots of friends who came out and after just a short amount of time payed haters no mind. I'm sure your a great person and dont deserve the **** people give you but your father will learn to love you just the way you are no matter what you are. Dont give up because each day you get closer to him excepting you for who you are . I know it may be hard, but you can do it I know you can . Is it just your father that makes you feel bad? feel free to PM if you need to .
   
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Re: depressed suicidal hurt and alone - August 14th 2011, 06:15 AM

i personally think that females who like females are aweesome stay strong! things will get better !


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Re: depressed suicidal hurt and alone - August 14th 2011, 10:50 AM

Hello Kristin,

You are not a mistake, no matter what anyone tells you.

A lot of people who first find out that they are gay aren't comfortable with it. Actually, I don't think I've ever met a person who found out they were gay and immediately accepted it. It takes time. For some, it might take days/weeks, and for others it might take months/years.

The key thing to remember is that you were the same person before you found out you were gay, and you're still the same person now. Nothing has really changed, except for who you love.

Being gay is definitely not the end of the world. There will be people who will judge you, but then you will know that they aren't really worth being a part of your life. Also, I want to add that being gay doesn't have to define who you are unless you let it.

I want to tell you that it took me about a year to accept my sexuality. During that time, I had similar thoughts and feelings that you are currently experiencing. But eventually, it did get better with the support of the friends and family I have now. Sometimes, telling someone that you are gay can lift that burden from your shoulders. Perhaps that could be an idea?

It doesn't matter who/what you love. In this case, you are attracted to girls. That's all there is to it.
   
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Re: depressed suicidal hurt and alone - August 16th 2011, 02:49 AM

i understand COMPLETELY how you're feeling.. you may be depressed, hurting, and suicidal, but i promise you aren't alone. no matter how alone you think you are, you never will be. i'm going through the exact same thing as you right now and so many other people are too. i know you feel like nothing will ever get better and you wanna kill yourself to get rid of all the pain and you're just about to give up, right? i know how you feel, it hurts so bad and personally, i think it's one of the worst pains to ever experience. but think of it this way, if you kill yourself, you'll just be giving away all of your pain and sorrow to your friends, family, even people you aren't close with. please please don't make a permanent decision over a temporary pain that you're feeling, i promise you that you'll regret it and you'll never know how your life could turn out. you could be famous, a millionaire, a lifesaver, anything you want to be, but if you kill yourself now you'll never even have a chance to be any of those things. please hold on and stay strong i know that you can do it, you were given this life to live it, not to suffer from it. god would never give you this life if he thought you couldn't handle it. prove him right by staying on this earth and staying beautiful let me know if you need any more advice or help <3
   
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