Triggering: Lost Baby

[waitingtodie]

I need some help. On January 14, 2011 I was having some complications at 32 weeks. My water had broke and I was rushed into the hospital. That night i had officially lost my baby girl named Sabre. Lately so many things have died. My friend, my pet, and now my baby. I just feel like dying most of the time now. Can someone please help me?

[theawesomeman]

Don't give up. You shouldn't want to die but it's okay that you feel sad, anybody would. On the good side the odds are incredibly low that that will happen again in the near future.

[Aletheia*]

I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your child, your friend and a beloved pet. Losing someone close to you is never easy. I know that for sure. But, you have to realize that it's okay to feel sad. I would if I were in your shoes, which I was at one point. I've miscarried twice since I was 16 years old. It wasn't the greatest feeling, but now I realize that I wasn't meant to be a parent yet. Nobody is punishing you, and you shouldn't feel like you want to end things. Those people you lost won't want you to feel sad, or upset. They'd want you to be sad for a while and then move on with your life and get back on your feet.

(I'm also going to move this thread. I feel as if it would be better suited in another forum where you could continue to receive advice on this subject).