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i hate family - July 30th 2013, 09:49 AM

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yesterday was a good day until my family got home and as usual we had another fight but this time i didnít take it anymore and i hit them back, they hate me and i cut deepest i ever have and i bled loads i just left it but i probably needs stitches because it is really deep and you could see the fat and ugh and i went really dizzy and light headed. now my room has blood all over and i dont know what to do i need to tidy it and there is loads of alchohol and painkillers in the house this is really tempting
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Re: i hate family - July 30th 2013, 04:34 PM

Hi Lydia, that sounds hard for you. Firstly make sure you look after your wounds, and keep them from getting infected, for more first aid click here. If your still dizzy and lightheaded it may be a good idea for you to get some medical help. I'm sure your family doesn't hate you, they will always love you no matter what. Please don't do anything you regret. I'm always here if you want to talk.

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Re: i hate family - July 30th 2013, 06:26 PM

Hi Lydia, I can understand about family drama and how it makes you want to cut but you should really try to take care of yourself. The next time you're angry with your family try directing that anger into something else other than cutting. Maybe punching a pillow, or screaming into one. But if you do cut please try to take care of the wound so that it doesn't get infected and so that you don't hurt yourself badly enough that you will completely regret it later on. Be strong and if you ever need to talk pm me.
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Re: i hate family - July 30th 2013, 07:27 PM

Hi Lydia, as said above please take care of yourself and your wounds. You don't want them getting infected, or being so deep that it does harm to your body. If you're still feeling sick or dizzy I'd advice seeking medical help, and the sooner you do the better. As for family drama being a trigger to self harm, I can honestly say I understand because I been through it myself. Just remember, your family will never hate you even when boiling mad they will always love you. Sometimes in the heat of the moment we do things we regret, but it's never too late to apologize and move on. Next time a situation like this arises may I suggest maybe going to your room, cooling off, and then talking it out. If you try and talk it out while mad at each other, things will just become worse and more anger will build. I hope this helps, and my PMs or VMs are always open. Stay strong and remember there is always an alternative to self harm you can find many http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f12-s...ing-self-harm/ <--here. We love you and hope you're okay!

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Re: i hate family - July 30th 2013, 07:38 PM

I am sorry you had an argument with your family and you ended up cutting really deep. You gotta keep the wound clean though because if it gets infected you will be in a lot of trouble. PM me if you ever need to talk

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