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Summer - June 8th 2015, 02:04 PM

Ok, this is more of a rant than anything but anyway...
It's summer and it's hot and I absolutely hate it! Everyone is running around in tanktops and I have to wear long sleeves because I'm way to insecure about the scars on my arm and if someone asks me why I'm wearing arm warmers when it's super hot I have to tell them I'm cold and arghhhh
I can deal with long jeans. That's ok, I did that last year to, but noone asked stupid questions then and I didn't feel like I was going to die of a heat strocke....

Has anyone else problems like that? or maybe a solution? I tried make up but it doesn't work. Somehow it just doesn't stick to the scars so instead of hiding them it pronounces them even more...
And summer has just started.....


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Re: Summer - June 8th 2015, 02:29 PM

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I had the same problem, because of scars I have on my two arms. First, I tried to hide them, but then I came to a conclusion that I won't stand it for so long. I hate when it's hot, really. So, I said to myself - stop. I mean ; not only quit hiding the scars, but making them as well. I broke this vicious circle Now I have several scars left, but I don't care if someone sees it, it'll heal up


   
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Re: Summer - June 8th 2015, 02:52 PM

Well I just cut my arm and put my arm warmers on and it's going to be like 90 degrees today. But I don't hide my scars at all. I know how it is though honestly what I did one summer when it was hot I bought the fishnet arm things and wore those even with fresh cuts. Nobody noticed what I had done they just saw the fishnets so maybe you could try those because they are cooler.


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Re: Summer - June 8th 2015, 11:17 PM

I have the same problem but I have started wearing kimonos. They are so so light and you can get long sleeved ones and I find them helpful in hot situations Maybe you could look into buying some?

However, don't be afraid to go out with your scars on show. They don't define you as a person or make you any less of a person and you are worth more than them and what anybody would think of them if they were to judge you for it.

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Re: Summer - June 9th 2015, 12:35 AM

I do frequently hide my scars, but if they show occasionally then I don't mind people seeing them either. A lot of people in my life know about my self-harm and they don't mind seeing scars but I definitely try to hide them. But, like someone else said, scars don't define who you are as a person because you're so much more than that. My scars are on my thighs and upper legs, so I usually wear longer shorts, capris, or leggings of some sort. I'm also into wearing athletic shorts with spandex underneath and I use those to swim too. For your arms, you might be able to find clothing that covers them but has light weight fabric, too.


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