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What should I do? - August 10th 2015, 02:07 AM

Hi lately it has been very awkward between my best friend and I. That is because of a situation that has happened. She was the one who got me to stop cutting because I hate to make people that angry with me. She was frustrated with the fact that I wasn't getting better after she tried so hard to help me.

My question is that what should I do with this because now we never talk and it always feels awkward to see her even now that she isn't all the mad because I stopped the self-harm. I feel like I need to talk to her and make everything okay again. I don't want to go through that same drama as before. Any advice?
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Re: What should I do? - August 10th 2015, 04:05 AM

I'm sorry to hear that your friend got frustrated with you, but I'm glad you want to talk to her again, and I'm glad you've stopped self-harming! You said you feel the need to talk to her and I think you should talk to her. Maybe you can let her know that she helped you stop self-harming so she knows how important she is to you. But, I also think you should talk to her about how she made you feel when she got frustrated with you. I think you should mention that you'd like to become friendlier with her and see where that takes you.

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Re: What should I do? - August 10th 2015, 04:55 AM

Thank you so much! I will definately try that and I appreciate your advice!
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