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... - February 4th 2017, 12:56 PM

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So yesterday I was walking home and the guy i like (let's call him C) and his friends were in front of me and one turned and saw me and said "Hey, C is taken" which killed me. I know C doesn't have a girlfriend, so I don't know what 'taken' actually means or why he told me, but I'm scared that maybe C likes another girl...
So another of C's friends turns around and waves at me, and I was just staring at him, then he pointed at me, put his hands in a heart shape then a C shape, I guess to either say or ask if I like/love C. I looked away and then all his friends started shouting stuff like "my guy C..." and I think they were trying to get him to turn around and, well I don't know something stupid I guess.
Then they went silent and I thought they were talking about something else, but the boy that told me that C is taken was trying to get him to turn around because I was there which was so weird and so was C's reaction to that idk
But I don't know why they did that. I was crying most of yesterday, couldn't they see how sad I looked? Why did he tell me C is taken?
Also, maybe I'm imagining it, but I think I saw C looking at this girl in my year who's really pretty what if he likes her?
So I guess that hurt a lot and I cut for the first time in ages and I went kinda deep again, but I guess it didn't help too much. I don't know what to do now because I really like him...
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Re: ... - February 4th 2017, 06:10 PM

I am really sorry that this happened to you. My adice is to maybe just try and be friends with her. Because to me that is better than nothing. Also crushes come and go. You have a crush on him right now but maybe once you get to know him you wont like him anymore.

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Re: ... - February 8th 2017, 09:40 PM


I know how you feel in elementary school i had a crush on a upperclassmen for like 3 years. i was to shy to try to become his friend but maybe you could try to become C's friend and get to know him better and look for signs that he likes you. i had another crush form my baseball league i don't know if he liked me but we weren't really friends nor enemy's

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