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Unhappy Still freaking out - July 27th 2009, 02:20 AM

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OMG!!!! I'm still freaking out and thinking my bf is gonna leave me. I thought a job would be good. I know it's gonna be hard cuz me and him have had our ups and downs and some things we need to work out but I just want it to work. I am freaking out again and all that is on my mind is the thought about him leaving me and cutting!!! I want to do it again just to take my mind off this whole thing with my bf and me. I just can't take this anymore, and if something does happen my depression is just gonna get worse. There is no will to live when the things you love and want get taken away from you
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Re: Still freaking out - July 27th 2009, 03:43 AM

this isn't going to make things better with your boyfriend. if anything, it will get worse if you do cut. cutting isn't a way to keep him, and if you do cut, you won't forget about your problems with him, it will just create another one.

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Re: Still freaking out - July 27th 2009, 08:47 PM

Hey Nikki,

If your boyfriend didn't want to be with you I think he would have left you already. He must want to be with you perhaps though it is just you being insecure thinking that he will leave you. Any relationship has ups and downs and I think the important thing is how you deal with the downs. Perhaps you and your boyfriend should sit down together and work something out. Talking it all through might help to solve things slightly. But then again it might not but I think it will help a bit. Even if things don't work out it isn't the end of the world. I hope you manage to sort things out though. Stay strong and don't give up.
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Re: Still freaking out - July 27th 2009, 08:52 PM

i think you need to sit down and just think about things
cutting isnt going to help
and as said above if he was going to leave you i think he would have done it.
he obviously wants to be apart of this relationship, so talk with him.
and let him know who you feel.
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