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Desperate -
May 25th 2010, 08:49 AM
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Im just an empty shell...
I need to cut to change this. I'm a mess. I need to get away from here. help...i just dont know what to do anymore. I need to do something. ah..cant even speak or do anything. cant function! "Friends are like stars; you don't always see them but you know they are always there"  "It gives me hope. I love you so much. You give me a reason to breathe. Its something for me to not kill myself for" >>> means so much :') Paramore! <3  Pm me anytime, I like to help! |
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Re: Desperate -
May 25th 2010, 12:11 PM
Hey there. Sorry you're feeling like this.
You say you need to cut to change things - what good will cutting really do? Try and look at this logically - cutting will only make things worse. You deserve to be free of self-harm, and you deserve to be happy again. Is there someone in real life you can talk to about this? Stay strong. xx Nothing in the world is the way it ought to be. It's harsh, and cruel. But that's why there's us - champions. Doesn't matter where we come from, what we've done or suffered, or even if we make a difference. We live as though the world is as it should be, to show it what it can be. |
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Re: Desperate -
May 26th 2010, 01:41 AM
Hey there,
I know how it feels to feel the need to cut but I promise you do not need it. You can make it through all of this pain and suffering without the self harm. It will be hard as hell but with time it will get easier. Do you have someone you can talk to? A friend? A parent? Another close person or relative? Talking can be really hard but in the end it can be really beneficial. Once you talk about something, although the problems won't go away, I am sure you will feel a little bit better. Can I ask what is causing you to want to self harm? If you can focus on that and then figure that out you might be better able to fight the urge to self harm. Lastly, have you thought of getting a therapist? I know it can be hard to open up to a stranger about all of the issues you are struggling with but in the end it really does help to have an objective understanding person to talk to. If you need anything feel free to pm me. Jenna 
There could never be amore beautiful you
Don't buy the lies, disguisesandhoops they make you jump through You were made tofill a purposethat only you could do So there could never be amore beautiful you -Johnny Diaz Everyday is so wonderful And suddenly it's hard to breathe Now and then I get insecure From all the pain, I feel so ashamed I am beautiful no matter what they say Words can't bring me down I am beautiful in every single way Yes, words can't bring me down, oh no So don't you bring me down today To all your friends you're delirious So consumed in all your doom Tryin' hard to fill the emptiness, the piece is gone Left the puzzle undone, ain't that the way it is? 'Cause you are beautiful no matter what they say Words can't bring you down, oh no You are beautiful in every single way Yes, words can't bring you down, oh no So don't you bring me down today -Christina Aguilera |
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Re: Desperate -
May 26th 2010, 08:19 AM
thank you. Cutting keeps me alive at the moment. its my lifeline. It doesnt make it worse at the moment because it cant really get any worse!
Jenna, I'm old hack at this now, been doing it for 2 years and been down the whole talking about it thing. I have lots of friends that I confide in, and have seen lots of counsellors. I currently see a CPN once a week, and to be honest she isnt that great. "Friends are like stars; you don't always see them but you know they are always there" "It gives me hope. I love you so much. You give me a reason to breathe. Its something for me to not kill myself for" >>> means so much :') Paramore! <3 Pm me anytime, I like to help! |
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Re: Desperate -
June 10th 2010, 02:57 PM
I've been there and it's very confusing. But keeping a diary will help a little better. When writing down things, you're steping back and looking back to why you're doing it.
During a period of time when you're cutting, it's like being out in the ocean. The boat of life as just sailed away and you're sitting their sinking under water, going deeper, but my advice is keeping a diary, even if it's just writing one sentence down on a post-it. And one more thing. You've got to keep swimming. The boats not coming back. You have to go get it |
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