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Self Harm If you or someone you know is struggling with self harm and needs advice or alternatives, we're here to help with any questions you have.

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Lost - June 7th 2010, 03:25 AM

I really don't want to hurt myself but I need to. It's something that will take away my emotional pain and give me something I can control. I'm trying what I usally do to stop the urge which is calling my friend but she isn't picking up the phone. I'm scared she hates me. I can't control anything anymore. I'm lost and I can't find my way out of this hole that has eaten me. My mom hates me seriously she will not get me help to my issues she thinks I make everything up. I just need some support thanks.


   
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Re: Lost - June 7th 2010, 03:51 AM

O haiii, Meg ! I suggest you take a look at this thread;Alternatives to self harm. You say that your mom doesn't believe you have these issues, but maybe could you see the school counselor? I know how hard it is Meg, SH is not a pretty thing. I'm currently struggling with it, but you are better then it. And your friend certainly doesn't hate you. Maybe she stepped out for a minute or isn't by the phone right now. I know you can overcome the urge Meg. I believe in you!
   
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Re: Lost - June 7th 2010, 08:57 AM

Hey there.

Well done for not wanting to hurt yourself - that's a step in the right direction. You say you need to, but I disagree with that - I know you can get through this without hurting yourself.

You say you want to self-harm to give yourself a sense of control - how about thinking of some other things you can take control over? For example, taking control and not hurting yourself.

The link Justin posted is very useful, and I would definitely recommend that you check it out.

Do you want to tell us some more about why you're feeling this way? What's caused you this emotional pain, and why you feel lost, for example.

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Re: Lost - June 14th 2010, 08:47 PM

If no-one will help, put matters into ur own hands. One day i got up and walked to the doctors and told him everything thats been going on. He gave me prozac but then 3 weeks later i cut myself really deep and my friend called the ambulance. If no-one want to call, call em urself! You gotta realise that many people don't understand
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