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Question hurt - September 24th 2010, 07:38 PM

i keep thinking of hurting myself and i dont know why . i just cant deal with peoples bullshi* anymore its so stressful . i cant hang with my friends because of two people that wont leave my bestfriend alone . what can i do ?
   
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Re: hurt - September 25th 2010, 02:55 AM

Hey.
Well, one thing you should definitely NOT do is hurt yourself. I promise that it won't solve anything and that it will just make you feel worse. Plus, you don't deserve to hurt yourself.
You should take a look at the alternatives sticky on the self-harm forum. It's a list of things you can do instead of hurting yourself....it's a really long list too, so hopefully you'll be able to find some things that can help you.
Is there someone you can talk to about your friends and stuff? About how people are stressing you out? If you don't have anyone, you can always talk to people here on TH.
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Re: hurt - September 25th 2010, 04:16 PM

theres no one i can trust at all . i just cant handle any of it anymore
   
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Re: hurt - September 26th 2010, 03:09 AM

No one at all? No teachers you really like or someone in your family or if you go to church, someone there? Maybe the guidance counselor at your school? Any close friends?
Talking to someone is really helpful. And if you don't feel like talking, getting your feelings out is really important because if you bottle them up it just makes things a lot worse. You could keep a journal..something private where you just let everything out. That's a much more healthy outlet than self-harm.
And, you could always blog on TH. Or go into the chatroom to the S&A room. People are almost always in there willing to listen.



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Re: hurt - September 26th 2010, 03:50 AM

no one , i cant trust anyone . im all alone .

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Re: hurt - September 26th 2010, 03:01 PM

Could you maybe go to the school counselor and ask for help?
Have you tried drawing or something instead of a journal? That might help.
I know when I want to SH, I make beaded bracelets.


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Re: hurt - September 26th 2010, 05:55 PM

no nothing works
   
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