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Unhappy help? - April 4th 2011, 02:43 AM

i cut. and i cant stop. i started becuz my cousin told me too. he is a year older than me but were in the same class and he always beats me(punches me, kicks me... ect.) and verbally(sp?) abuses me(says im a bitch, whore, skank. i need to kill myself... ect.) and a few minths ago after school he threw his pocket knife at me and told me to sit in a corber and cut myself. and i did. the next day he saw the scars and laughed in my face. my friend saw the scars and shes threatening to tell my mom if i dont stop. but my parents are part of the reason i cut too. my parents are both christians, and so am i. but they are also very strict. they scream at me if i get any grades other than an A and im bisexual. and they disaprove of that stuff. i javent told them that yet because i know my dad will beat me if he ever found out. i just feel so disappointing because i can never live up to my parents' expectations. sometimes i just want to kill myself and let everyone be better off without me. and i just dont know how long i can keep lying to myself and saying that everything will be okay. can anyone help me?
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Re: help? - April 4th 2011, 05:32 PM


I'm incredibly sorry for what you've gone through and what it's done to you, nobody should ever make anyone SH as its horrible and something not at all pleasent to go through. Perhaps you could talk to a school counsillor about this stuff? That way you'll have somebody to talk to in confidence about these things, and they can guide you through it.

As for your parents, if they love you, they should accept you. As parents it's their job to love you anc care for you unconditionally, and although I am aware this is not always the case, I think it's worth informing them of these things anyway, as they too will be able to help you out.

PM me if you ever want to talk, I'm happy to help you out. Take care and keep your chin up, everything works out in the end, and you will make it through what you're going through.

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Re: help? - April 4th 2011, 11:06 PM

school counseler? my school doesnt have one of those... and as for my parents. im too scared.. whenever i try telling them something they get mad.
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Re: help? - April 5th 2011, 12:08 AM

Hey chelsy,
Im here for u. My brother verbally and sometimes physically abuses me, and sometimes he's the reason I cut. Oh yeah I cut myself too. Message me okay? Ik sometimes stuff feels impossible, but maybe there is a way to get through it.

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