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Now I've really done it. - April 8th 2011, 08:59 PM

I did it for the first time 2 days ago. and again yesterday and again today. I thought I could be strong. That I wouldn't let myself do this. But I should have known I would do this eventually. I have wanted to ever since my parents died. I just don't get how they died and I am still here without them. I'm so alone it's just not fair! I wish I could die and be with them again. I feel like I wasn't meant to live and I like to make myself feel pain. I deserve it. I know that this is a VERY bad habit to get into I know all the possible consequences but i just cant help myself. I'ts already to late I am already addicted and I DON'T WANT to stop. Also I am sorry for posting this. I just feel so bad that I am doing this but at the same time I enjoy it and i feel worse that I am alive. I am mostly just posting this to get it off my chest and not really for advice but I won't mind if people want to comment anyways. Thanks for listening or reading w.e.
   
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Re: Now I've really done it. - April 8th 2011, 09:25 PM

i know how you feel iv lost someone i love and i have been cutting for a year and a half now and ill tell you dont do it it just makes the situation worse and if you die think of all the people that love and care about you what would they do if they found out you was trying to die if you wanna chat just pm me i WILL reply as soon as i can kk hope this will make you stop but i know you wount want to you wount want to stop till you cant stop kk hope this helped


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Re: Now I've really done it. - April 8th 2011, 09:39 PM

Hey,

I'm really sorry to hear about your parents death, and i can understand why you're feeling this way. A great way to get rid of unhappy things is by writing them down on a paper, and after you've done that, destroy the paper, it worked for me, maybe you should try it to
And maybe, if that didn't work, you could try to talk to somebody about it. But suicide isn't the best option, there are so many things to life for, there are a couple on a sticky somewhere around here, when i'll get on a pc i'll try to find it
Also, there are a couple of alternatives to cutting (etc) in a sticky, i'll search those to, if you want to (:
By the way, you don't have to stop cutting, but i'm saying it might not be the best option. Feel free to P.M me anytime, i'll help you as much as i can.

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Here is the link with reasons to live:
http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f11-d...-reasons-live/
And here are the alternatives to sel harm:
http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f12-s...ves-self-harm/
I hope it helped

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Re: Now I've really done it. - April 9th 2011, 04:22 AM

Hey Kahlan,

You don't need to apologize. I'm sorry you feel like you need to do this. I care about you, and you need to believe me, you can beat this.
I know how it feels to feel like there isn't any other way out. When it feels like all you want to do is tell someone, but you already know exactly what they'd say. I'm really sorry to hear about your parents, and they wouldn't want you to feel sad. I'm sorry you feel abandoned, but it will get better. Please don't kill yourself. There are still people you love you.
Right now, you don't want to stop, and you won't believe this right away, but it will be much better if you do. This site has tons of resources to help you quit. It's a hard thing to stop, but it can be done. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk.

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