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cut again :/ - June 28th 2011, 05:28 AM

it's been 2 months, but i cut again :/

i feel bad.
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Re: cut again :/ - June 28th 2011, 05:42 AM

Hi there.

Why did you do it?
Actually, I don't get it. You are just going to make things worse for yourself.
Please try to tell us more how you feel.
   
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Re: cut again :/ - June 28th 2011, 05:56 AM

Idk, just had a big urge, and i caved.
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Re: cut again :/ - June 28th 2011, 11:22 AM

Hey Sarah

It's ok that you slipped up, we all do it from time to time. You just need to pick yourself back up and try again. Just keep trying alternatives and talking to someone when you feel like that. It will all get better again so don't think that you're a failure because you're not a failure. You are only getting stronger day after day.

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Re: cut again :/ - June 28th 2011, 05:28 PM

im sry u did Sarah. i did to. i know how you feel. we could talk if you want to. take care of yourself.
   
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Re: cut again :/ - June 29th 2011, 11:12 AM

Everyone makes mistakes. I've made it two days without SH, and I've made it two years. But relapsing is just part of the over-all recovering process. Don't feel ashamed or sullen because you gave in to the urge to cut.

Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start the count again. Go as long as you can without self-harm, and along the way, figure out any triggers that you might be able to avoid and any alternatives that work for you.

And, of course, you can always come talk to me and listen to my stupid jokes to cheer you up.


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Re: cut again :/ - June 30th 2011, 03:46 PM

Sarah! Two months is huge! Great Job! Also setbacks are part of the healing process. The fact that you feel bad about it is actually really good. It shows that you really don't need to SH. So now you start counting again...go for longer than 2 months!

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