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I Need Help! - December 20th 2011, 04:06 PM

So . . I was going on 3 weeks without SH. Now, I'm back down to 10 hours. I made a promise to a friend that I wasn't going to do this anymore, but I broke that. If that friend is reading this, I'm really sorry! Anyways, my new goal is to make it to a month without SH. But, I'm too weak to do it on my own. I need a lot of support, please? That's really all I'm asking for in this. Love and support to help me through all of this. Thanks . .



   
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Re: I Need Help! - December 20th 2011, 04:15 PM

You have my support! PM me anytime you want to. It's no bother

As for your friend...they need to understand this is very hard and basically an addiction. Some people might say "I'm going to quit" and do it, while others struggle with some slip ups but eventually manage to stop.

That's not to say it's okay to SH. It's not and you should avoid it if possible. But if it happens on occasion, it happens. You move on.


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Re: I Need Help! - December 20th 2011, 04:25 PM

Thanks so much Kelly.

It's not that I made a promise that I wasn't going to do it. I made a promise that I was going to call/text her if I felt the urge to, and she would try to help bring my mind back to a healthy place.



   
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Re: I Need Help! - December 20th 2011, 05:27 PM

I don't know if you wanted to keep the friend (me) a secret or not but I have to reply to this. I love you Sammi. Don't worry about breaking the promise. Promises are nothing compared to support and friendship. I know it's hard, I know. I just hope you realize that I'M HERE and you can always text/call me despite time differences (I may be a little groggy from answering a phone call that late but I'll still listen!). You are NOT weak. You can do this. I thought I was weak too but look! 6 weeks 4 days! You can catch up to me. Hehe. Don't worry sweets. I got your back and I always will. Even if we're on opposite sides of the country. I'm your friend. You're my friend. That's all that matters. You CAN overcome SH even if it's hard. You ARE strong.

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Re: I Need Help! - December 20th 2011, 05:31 PM

Awhhhh. <3 That just made my day. I didn't care about keeping you a secret, I just didn't know if it was necessary to put the name. Lol. Thanks for having my back, lovely. I'm not worth the support, but I appreciate it. I'll get there one day. I'll make everyone that's helped me proud.

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Re: I Need Help! - December 20th 2011, 05:36 PM

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I'm not worth the support, but I appreciate it.
Wrong.
You ARE worth the support.
You and I both know that you're worth so much more than that. You deserve help and friends and everyone to help you overcome this... and with a little support and love; it'll be okay!
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Re: I Need Help! - December 20th 2011, 06:02 PM

You can beat this! I know you can. You are stronger than it. PM me anytime you want to. If I'm not online, I will reply as soon as I can. <3





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Re: I Need Help! - December 21st 2011, 12:22 AM

Thanks guys.
My arm feels like a brick now! I don't think this is normal.



   
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Re: I Need Help! - December 21st 2011, 12:45 AM

Pm me if you ever need anything, I'll listen. I promise *hug*





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Re: I Need Help! - December 21st 2011, 02:28 AM

Hello dear I just wanted to let you know that you have my full support. You can beat this I know it. Feel free to send me a pm or vm at any time. Much luck to you on your road to recovery.
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Re: I Need Help! - December 21st 2011, 07:11 AM

Hey!
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Re: I Need Help! - December 21st 2011, 10:32 AM

I have 4 words for you- YOU CAN DO IT!


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Re: I Need Help! - December 21st 2011, 04:28 PM

Seriously guys, thanks for supporting me!
I know I'm probably hitting over-kill with the thank-yous, but it's seriously appreciated!



   
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