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I cut last night; I regret it. - March 12th 2012, 08:54 PM

I cut myself last night, after 3 weeks of not cutting, and I'm really dissapointed in myself. I was just wondering if there was anyone here willing to talk to me about it if they're going through the same thing, I feel like a let down to myself and my friends


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Re: I cut last night; I regret it. - March 12th 2012, 09:02 PM

I'm going through the same thing, but I had been 2 weeks without cutting. I actually thought that this time I was going to stop, but no.
But don't feel like you've let yourself down. That you were 3 weeks without cutting is very good, so keep being as strong as you were then
   
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Re: I cut last night; I regret it. - March 12th 2012, 09:03 PM

This past month I've been going through the same thing, I hadn't self-harmed myself in years, and now that I have begun again, it's easy to fall back into the old habit, feel free to vent to me if you need to, I can definitely relate.

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Re: I cut last night; I regret it. - March 12th 2012, 09:07 PM

Thank you Ella and Suki, it's nice to know there's others here with the same issue, even though it's not the best of things to have in common... Ahaa.


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Re: I cut last night; I regret it. - March 12th 2012, 09:07 PM

Hey dont feel like you let yourself down, you did well going that long

I have been going through the same thing and i know it can be difficult i went two months with out it and then i sunk back in badly. So if you ever need to talk about it properly and you can PM me anytime and i'll try get back to you

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Re: I cut last night; I regret it. - March 13th 2012, 01:27 AM

Hi There -

I will talk to you if you need to talk. You can email me BGonya10@aol.com

I hope you are okay.


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Re: I cut last night; I regret it. - March 13th 2012, 01:42 AM

Hey,

I know what you are going through. It has been a while sense I've gotten even close to three weeks without cutting but I know the feeling and I am here for you if you need someone to talk to.
You definitely are not alone, many people can relate to this and are in the same place you are in trying to quit.
You have to just realize that yes, you did slip up, but you can do this, it isn't about how many times you slip up, it is about what you do change your ways of coping and your thoughts surrounding why you slipped up.
Three weeks is awesome and you should be really proud you made it that far! If you made it that far, you can make it there again and farther!
You can try some alternatives, if you haven't yet. They are very helpful in fighting the urges. Not all of them work for all people but there are a lot on the list, so do not give up on trying to figure out what may help you.
You can send me a PM or VM if you ever need anything.
Stay strong and keep yourself safe. You can do this!


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Re: I cut last night; I regret it. - March 13th 2012, 05:35 PM

Thanks guys I didn't do it as badly as I used to, so I'm getting somewhere. I was so proud of my three weeks, so I'm going to try and think the way I was thinking then. Again, thank you


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Re: I cut last night; I regret it. - March 15th 2012, 02:37 AM

I know how you feel because I did it a while ago and it actually hurt someone I cared about to the point where she cried and I decided to stop because I don't ever want to be the person that makes her unhappy.
   
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Re: I cut last night; I regret it. - March 15th 2012, 03:36 AM

Hey there,

I just want you to know, that 3 weeks self harm free is great. The fact that you slipped up is just a bump in the road. It is all part of recovery. Just look at it as a learning experience. I have been cutting for 4 years now, and am still working on recovery. It still have slip ups. Just remember you can do this, and start over. Good luck dear.

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